Monday 30 October 2023

Pies & Prejudice


Breaking off from my mammoth weekend of eBay listing for a bit of a blog hop, I had to roll my eyes at a snarky comment levelled at a woman who mostly wears secondhand clothes, Well once again a charity shop guru, fine if you want to wear others casts off...as a child my mum often came home with bags of clothes given to her and whether they fitted or not I had to wear them, so no. Well, like that commenter, as a child, I too was dressed in clothes handed down from Mum's work colleagues, from secondhand shops or jumble sales and I didn't mind one bit that they once belonged to someone else. Even as a child I LOVED looking different. The more people with that prejudiced attitude the better, it means all the more cast-offs for me!

(PS I nicked my blog title from the excellent book by 6Music DJ Stuart Maconie)


On Saturday we popped into town to run an errand for a friend and, as usual, was dressed from head to toe in cast-off clothing; a River Island hat, ancient leather cowboy boots & Topshop linen top (all charity shopped), a 1970s Indian Imports of Rhode Island block printed maxi skirt (via eBay) and a fabulous vintage sheepskin gilet which used to belong to a very stylish friend. 




 The rest of the day was spent eBay listing. Jon made some lovely baked bean and sage pies for tea, accompanied by some homemade oven chips. Needless to say, the Mason's individual bowls were part of a six piece set, bought from a charity shop and the Rangemaster, in which we cooked our tea, was a hand-me-down from a neighbour.

After the success of the Five Ingredient Vegan cookbook, I bought another of Katy Beskow's books from Abebooks (£3.17 including postage) and I was surprised to discover that it was brand new when it arrived.


We don't use tomato ketchup so Lord Jon used chilli sauce.



Just like with the mystery of the horseshoe nail pendant last week, once again a blog reader came to my rescue and made a recommendation for our next binge watch, the excellent time-travelling thriller series, based on a graphic novel by Si Spencer, Bodies on Netflix (not to be confused with the brilliant Jed Mercurio medical series of the same name!) Unfortunately the commenter didn't leave a name but thanks so much, we're loving it. As soon as I discovered Stephen Graham was in it I knew we'd enjoy it.

We popped to the clearance chazza on Sunday morning but were very restrained and only came home with a handful of things which, with the exception of the three paperbacks (Tombland, the only CJ Sansom book I haven't read & two novels by Dave Eggers, whose A Heartbreaking Work of Staggering Genius I absolutely loved when I read it twenty years ago) went straight into the stockroom.  


I had to wear my new-to-me vintage 1960s maxi dress and being 100% wool I didn't even need to wear a coat over the top. 


I also wore my Arts & Crafts era Ruskin brooch. 


Funnily enough, we watched an old Bargain Hunt on the iplayer when we got home and one of the teams bought one for £45  (mine was 20p from a jumble sale). As I've mentioned before, there's loads of Ruskin-Style brooches out there but unless it's stamped Ruskin it ain't one.


Here's why other people's cast-offs rock my world....These Carvela for Kurt Geiger "Wallace" over the knee leather boots were pick of the week in The Guardian's fashion pages last year and retailed at £220. Mine - which had been worn twice - were £16!

Didn't that extra hour make the day interminable? I was ready for bed by 9pm on Sunday night and could only manage a chapter of my latest read before nodding off. It didn't hep that William didn't get the clocks going back memo and insisted on attacking my feet at 5am!


Monday, and another day of wearing other people's cast-offs although, to be fair, the puff sleeved Levi's denim shirt was new last year (albeit with 50% off). 


The vintage skirt was an online buy and the sheepskin hat and 1970s leather belt came from a charity shop. As I was outside taking photos most of the day, that hat was a necessity. Not sure what was going on with my hair here or why my zip was down - Jon never told me!


These amazing handmade Moroccan Kilim & leather boots were £5 (secondhand, of course.)


Sunday is nail day. This week it's Barry M's Rhubarb. I found this turquoise and silver ring beneath the chest of drawers in the bedroom, I bought it in India in 2005 but lost it years ago. 


The bracelet was a 21st birthday from my workmates when I was sous chef at a posh golf club. The silver brooch is another hand-me-down, it was my great-grandma's (my maternal grandfather's mother). Her photograph hangs on our wall. 


Jon popped round to Tony's house to put some kitchen shelves up and made some chocolate & hazelnut pinwheels to take with him, using the puff pastry left from Saturday night's pies. Tony couldn't believe he'd made them himself. The Midwinter plate (Focus by Barbara Brown) was part of a dinner set my parents had as a wedding present in 1966. 


I'm off to watch more Bodies, see you soon!

55 comments:

  1. Your brooch was a key item in my most favourite movie of all time - Velvet Goldmine! I love it and I hope I will find one some day.

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    1. Sophia, I'd forgotten all about Velvet Goldmine, I think it needs to go on my rewatch list! x

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  2. Those pinwheels look delicious!

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  3. Love the bracelet...fab gift from ex colleagues.
    Great outfits!
    I always loved second hand clothes too! Even as a kid!

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    1. Thanks, Ivana! My colleagues got my tastes just right. Second hand clothes are the best, far more interesting than shopping from rails of the same old stuff. x

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    2. Exactly!
      P.S. Your hair is so beautiful. It grows so quickly too!

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  4. The linen Top looks very nice, it suits you perfect. Also the wool Dress is a Highlight for cold Days. I was the oldest kid, so my younger Sister wear my clothes. Now she is a mother and loved to buy second hand clothes for herself and her kids.

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    1. Thank you! That dress is so warm, I loved wearing it. Your sister obviously didn't mind wearing your hand-me-downs as she dressed her kids in second-hand clothes. She sounds like a very sensible woman. x

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  5. Love your Great-Grandma's brooch. It looks Scottish. Do you know what the initials are on it? I had a wee look at your listings. I love the Dilli Grey jacket. I think the Scottish purple velvet jacket is part of a Highland Dancing outfit.Continuing on the Scottish theme, have you seen 'Crime'? Dougray Scott and Ken Stott are fantastic in it. Oh and the new series of 'Shetland' starts on Wednesday. Over and out from north of the Border!x

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    1. Thanks, Annie! Her name was Mary Alice Chapman so the initials are MAC so almost Scottish! I love that Dilli Grey jacket but I just don't wear it and its such a shame for it to languish in the wardrobe. That Gaelic jacket is a beauty, I thought it might be part of a traditional costume.
      I haven't seen Crime but love both those actors, Ken Stott was brilliant as Rebus. I shall look out for it. I've only watched one episode of Shetland and couldn't get into it but I see Don Gilet is in the new series, he's a Walsall boy, he went to school with Jon! I might have to give it another try. xxx

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  6. Jon needs to start a cooking blog, or at least post his recipes on here!

    Winter has started and the woolies are coming out. Never mind the woolies, my light down coat has had it's first outing.

    I love those boots.

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    1. He loves pottering about in the kitchen, Baker by name, baker by nature.
      Winter seems to come round far too quickly. It's not too bad here but it looks like another of those evil storms are heading our way later in the week, looks like buckets at dawn if it gets here before our roofer does!
      Those boots are absurdly comfy! xxx

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  7. I grew up wearing hand me downs too as I was the smallest in the family. I still wear them 90% of the time. I don't have yours or Vronni's style though.

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    1. Thanks for that kind compliment, Marjorie. Vronni's a very stylish lady, isn't she? I know you love a secondhand find as much as I do, growing up wearing secondhand clothes didn't scar you either! xxx

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  8. To each their own - no need to bash those of us who shop and wear secondhand! Keep on buying that expensive new stuff and donating it when you're done - people like me and you, Vix, will happily snap it up at a fraction of the price!

    I am drooling over your gorgeous silver rings. That Ruskin brooch is a stunner.

    Cats and time changes (ours is next week). My little furry monster jumps on the bed and stands on our heads. "Hey, Woman! Food time!"

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    1. Too right, Sheila! Although those people who rush out, buy the pricey stuff they've seen in the fashion mags & get rid of it a few months later aren't of our mindset we love them! Our wardrobes would be a lot poorer for them.
      I wouldn't be me without my fistful of silver, I lose my powers when I take my rings off!
      Oh yes, William was yowling, jumping on the bed and sharpening his claws on the rug at 5am this morning - I tried showing him the clock but it didn't work and I had to get up and admit defeat. Its six months since he moved in so he's not experienced a clock change before. xxx

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  9. I'm swwwwwooooning over the sheepskin gilet- have been in search of one v similar but hard to find real sheepskin reasonably in good condition.
    Who was the snark who made such a comment. People have to rain on People's parade and it's mean!!
    We ADORED getting bags of cast me downs from friends and family! Still do!! In fact, I met a family friend, Denise's uncle when I was in Ireland a few years ago and when he cleared out his recently deceased wife's clothes a few months later, he insisted they send me a vast box of high end clothes in the post as he thought they would suit me. I was so touched! Kezzie xx

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    1. Hi Kezzie! I know! I couldn't let this beauty go. I sold my last one a couple of years ago as it was a bit too big, I found a Urban Outfitters replacement on eBay which is nice but nothing beats the warmth of the real thing.
      It wasn't a blog I'd read before and although the commenter left a name I don't think they had a blog. It never does anyone any favours to be like that, they think they're being clever but all it does is make them look unpleasant.
      How kind of Denise's uncle to pass a few of his wife's clothes your way. I know how overwhelming it is to have to clear up after someone dies, I got so much comfort from passing on Mum's jewellery and clothes to friends who I thought would enjoy them. xxx

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  10. Hi, Vix! Many of my childhood clothes were homemade rather than hand-me-downs as I had no older sisters. In those days it was cheaper to sew than to buy clothing, and I longed for more store bought clothes. What a silly goose I was! I would give anything to have a wardrobe of clothes sewn and fitted especially for me now! I do buy secondhand from online sites like Poshmark and ThredUp here in the states, and it not only saves me money but allows me to buy discontinued styles from favorite labels.
    Still on the subject of clothes, I would love to know your philosophy on choosing colors and patterns. I recently learned of a system that determines one’s best colors on one’s energy and body movement rather than one’s coloring. It seems counterintuitive to me, but I would love to hear what you think about the topic. Thanks, Vix!

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    1. Hello Tess! Lovely to hear from you. How fabulous that you wore handmade clothes as a child. Like you say, bespoke and made to fit. On the rare occasion I had something new from a shop it was always a few sizes too big so I could grow into it!
      Online shopping has made buying second hand so much easier. As well as vintage I love eBay for discontinued & discounted (unused) make-up and Vinted is brilliant for contemporary labels people have tired with are sell for a fraction of their original price.
      I've not heard of that system of choosing colours and patterns, I've only ever bought those I'm attracted to although, maybe subliminally, I'm attracted to the colours and prints that suit my personality & outlook on life. Back in the 1980s I was at a fashion event and got chosen to have my colours done (the in thing back then!) and absolutely loathed the result - all soft pastels and shimmering eyeshadow - horrific! I often get customers in our festival shop asking for help in choosing something to wear and altogether dismiss an item because they've been told they're a "cool summer" or something similar. I think all this professional colour analysis seems like a bit of a con, just buy what you like and the happiness you project from wearing something you love will make you feel beautiful and confident. xxx

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    2. Love that last sentence, Vix! May I copy it into my quotes book for posterity? I will give you full credit!

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    3. You're more than welcome, Tess! x

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    4. Soft pastels and shimmering eye shadow! Nah! I can’t see that catching on!!!

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    5. It definitely needs to stay in the 1980s! x

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  11. Hi Vix. As a kid growing up in a seventies working class home with no cash to spare, I was grateful for 2nd hand clothes. My cousin Gillian and Maureen's hand me downs were the only fashionable clothes I got. Even now, being a Woman of a Certain Age, I still buy the majority of my clothes 2nd hand. Charity shops are ideal for pretty much everything except undies, tights and footwear as far as I'm concerned. I save money and do my bit for the Green economy and charity. That person's snarky comment was plain daft! Anyway, rant over. Love your blog. The clothes, the jewellery, the cat ... Best wishes, Valerie

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    1. Hello Valerie! Thanks so much for commenting as it's enabled me to find your blog. Thank goodness for the generosity of others. I used to feel really grown up and glamorous wearing clothes donated to my mum from her friends' older daughters. When you grow up with it, secondhand becomes a lifestyle choice rather than a necessity? I always look to see if I can get what I want secondhand before resorting to buying new (and thank goodness for having a M&S Outlet down the road to keep me stocked up with thermals!). xxx

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  12. Hello Vix, I’m catching up on your lovely posts. We’re busy with the renovation work on my sister’s house and making good progress with it. We’ve also managed a few breaks away, which has been lovely and lots of concerts and theatre events.
    It’s lovely to know that William has settled in nicely with you both. It was meant to be obviously.
    Take care both of you. Sending our love as always xxx

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    1. Hello you two, it's fabulous to hear from you. I'm glad the renovations are underway but I hope you're not overdoing it and are still finding time for some fun! xxx

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  13. Thank you for a wonderful post. Love all your outfits. When my boys were little now both in their 30 's, we had very little money so I haunted charity shops and boot fair's and nearly all their and my clothes were second hand. My eldest loved hand me downs from his cousins as well and liked the fact that someone he loved had worn them before him. Both my son's love vintage clothes now and always look stylish as well as stopping things go to landfill. A win win in my book. Hurrah for second hand I say. Regards Sue H.





    boot fairs

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    1. Hello Sencosue. Another second hand fan! My and my brother thought the same as your boys and loved that we were wearing the older kids' clothes, it made us feel very grown up and special. I'm glad your thrifty ways installed a love for vintage for them both. xxx

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  14. Hi Vix, Shelagh here, I agree with your comments about second hand. I grew up in the sixties and seventies and my dad was an unskilled worker so he moved from job to job and often he just did his own thing, including being a ragman, as it was called then. He didn't have a horse and cart at the time I was around, he was a posh ragman! Hahaha! I used to go with him and sit in the back of the van sorting out good stuff from the rags. I loved it it was great fun and often hilarious. We got loads of stuff from the rags and were often dressed in the things which were donated. At the end of the day we wieghed them off and any special stuff like jewellery and metal was seperated and sold. It was a very happy time for me and I have very fond memories of sorting the rags. The rest of our outfits were hand made by my mam who was a brilliant dressmaker. Happy days. Shelagh

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    1. Hello Shelagh, I loved reading about your dad's adventures as a posh ragman! We still get the ragman coming round here but its all old fridges, electrical appliances and scrap metal. Most have knackered old transit vans but there was a horse and cart until about ten years ago.
      I bet it was so exciting sifting through the rags and dressing up in what he'd collected. My mum & a friend bought a junk shop when I was little and I was fascinated by the stock, tottering around in 1950s winklepickers and those stiff net petticoats, it's probably where my love of vintage clothes came from. xxx

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  15. Why do people have to be so damn rude? If you don't like something, scroll on by, there's no need to make the snarky comments. I have to be honest and say, I used to love second hand shopping but the glow has gone of it a bit for me purely because it's really hard to find anything decent in my local ones. Vinted has come to the rescue a few times though, there's good stuff to be had on there including my beloved neon dress from the summer. Those pinwheels look amazing, and as always your 'cast offs' make amazing outfits! xx

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    1. I know! It's not like the blogger was hurting anyone or inciting violence, she just said that she prefered buying second hand clothes! As my Mum always said, if you can't think of anything nice to say then keep your mouth shut.
      I'm a recent convert to Vinted, it's very addictive! xxx

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  16. hello vix , my mom and dad would never buy second hand because dad grew up so poor he never had anything for christmas so his aunty bought him some boots one year it was so sad really that put him off second hand clothes for life but as you know i love second hand things my daughter wont buy second hand either , jon is a dab hand in the kitchen isnt he xx

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    1. Hello Eileen. What a shame Dave was put off secondhand stuff and isn't it strange how your daughter didn't inherit your love of it? Everything Jon had as a child was secondhand - even his bike came out of a skip (his dad was very handy!) but it never put him off, he gets more excited than I do when we go charity shopping! xxx

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  17. Adore the wool maxi dress, and those snakeskin boots are amazing, along with the gorgeous Ruskin brooch. So glad you're loving Bodies as much as we are! Sorry, not sure why my comment was posted as Anonymous.

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    1. Thanks so much for the recommendation, Amanda! We absolutely loved Bodies and finished it in three nights. I see they've already commissioned a second series.
      You can't go wrong with a bit of snakeskin, can you? I'm mad on Ruskin, one of our local museums has a whole room of his creations, the jewellery is gorgeous but his jewellery boxes and fire surrounds are the stuff of dreams. xxx

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  18. Lost track of how many time you mentioned cast-off.

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  19. Oh Vix - I can't get past that first paragraph. Hand-me-downs in whatever way (complete or reshaped to fit) WAS NORMAL at one time. People made their own clothes even! And mended their shoes!! Honestly, dinosaurs were not roaming the earth either ....

    Elaine Again

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    1. Yes, Elaine, I thought everyone wore hand-me-downs and secondhand clothes when they were children (and bigger!) What is it with this sense of entitlement? I know people who donate their shoes to charity rather than getting them repaired, utter madness. Our cobbler is brilliant and can work wonders - a new heel only cost £5.95! xxx

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  20. Fabulous outfits! I can't believe someone would make such a comment about "other people's cast offs." I think it shows a lack of imagination frankly.
    Love the sheepskin gilet, your 60s wool dress and those Kurt Geiger boots!
    I'm drooling over those vegan recipes...baked beans and sage sounds like an interesting combination. Bet that worked well!
    I can't believe that I cancelled our Netflix subscription a couple of months ago as I could never find any inspiration. Since then, loads of new content has appeared! xxx

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    1. Thanks, Claire! It's almost as bad as "wearing dead people's clothes". Honest to god, there are some very bizarre folk on the planet.
      That gilet is so warm as is that wool dress - sometimes you don't want to be encumbered by a bulky coat, do you?
      Baked beans and sage, who'd have thunk it, eh?
      Bodies was so good (helped, in no small part by our lovely Stephen Graham!) xxx

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  21. That snarky comment made me bristle and I can't for the life of me understand why people feel the need to make such comments. Ugh!
    Like you, I absolutely love my wardrobe of other people's cast-offs.
    As always, your outfits are absolutely fabulous! I'm swooning over that sheepskin gilet, your new-to-you vintage 1960s maxi dress and your vintage skirt/Levi's blouse/sheepskin hat combo. I am swooning over the Arts&Crafts era Ruskin brooch and as for those Kurt Geiger boots: be still my beating heart!
    Jon's chocolate and hazelnut pinwheels are looking mouthwateringly delicious. I'll be sneaking off downstairs to indulge my sweet tooth in a minute! xxx

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    1. I know, those negative nellies must be a joy to have around - not! If they can't think of something nice to say then they really ought to keep their snarky opinions to themselves.
      I do love a cast-off or two. I can't even walk past a skip without checking the contents. I doubt I'd ever be able to justify spending £220 on a pair of boots (that's a holiday) so buy buying used I can have both!
      Those pinwheels were so tasty (and really easy!) I don't even like sweet things but soon demolished mine! xxx

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  22. Those who think second hand means second best are sadly mistaken as those of us who don't hesitate to snap up the goodies know only too well! I get that snarky persons feelings though, I was brought up on second hand, jumble sales were a weekly event and I was always teased at school for being given school uniform from the lost property box and I hated that clothes didn't 'smell of me' but of someone else until many washes...(aspergers). But you get over it and as a teenager I embraced those jumble sales - they gave me access to things I could never afford - my first pair of knee high leather boots (yes they were green but I dyed them black), a Biba embroidered velvet smock dress, and a trusty Goldrange of London sheepskin coat ... many would take your arm off for those goodies these days! I do buy new too - and sometimes quality/expensive items because well made clothes are built to last, but appreciate the workmanship of 'vintage/second hand' and the opportunities it gives me to be individual. I love seeing what you have found and how you put your outfits together, you are a great advertisement for slow, fashion, planet friendly options :)

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    1. Hello Betty! Oh yes, those people who dismiss secondhand as being second best really don't know what they're missing out on. Like you, I'm happy to buy new - but only if it's been ethically made and I know the quality & finish is worth the expense - otherwise I'll wait for it to turn up secondhand.
      Those jumble sale finds of old sound amazing. I often used to dye boots and bags I'd bought from jumble sales, it wasn't the end of the world if the result wasn't perfect when you'd only spent pennies.
      Coming from a working class, post industrial town pretty much all of my school friends wore secondhand stuff, there was no shame or stigma attached to it. My mum & a friend had a junk shop when I was little and me and my brother loved helping out in the school holidays. xxx

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    2. how lovely your childhood was! my granny helped in a charity shop and thats where a lot of my clothing came from. After reading your posts ref vegan food - amazingly I found Katy Beskow sitting on the library shelf waiting for me today! Betty x

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    3. I loved Mum's junk shop "Second Time Around". Lots of her customers were Sikh gentlemen, newly arrived from the Punjab who'd come to work in the local factories, they were always freezing cold and desperate for overcoats, jumpers and umbrellas. I was fascinated by their turbans, long beards and waxed moustaches and thought they'd come straight out of one of my favourite bedtime books, Tales from 1,001 Nights.
      Fancy finding a Katy Beskow book waiting for you in the library - happy cooking! xxx

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  23. To the person who could not wear “hand me downs” because they hated to do so as a child - lots of us had crappy childhoods. We grew up . . . and mostly got over it.

    Knowing just what damage the fashion industry does to the environment part of me wants people to wake up and ONLY wear recycled clothing. If all the fashionistas all stopped buying the expensive, polluting stuff then the manufacturers might rethink what they made. But if everyone else realises how incredible vintage/used clothing can be then there will not be as much for the rest of us. Perhaps that makes me as selfish as those who don’t care?

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    1. Hear, hear! It's pathetic really, isn't it? I thought everyone wore hand-me-downs, wasn't it normal back then before the availability of cheap and nasty sweatshop produced clothes. Why would any sensible parent squander money on clothes a kid would grow out of in a few weeks? xxx

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  24. I love your skirt so much in the first outfit. Your rings are also very pretty. Have a wonderful day! :)

    xoxo, rae
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