Monday 22 January 2024

Anatomy of a Dress

I'm all dressed up and nowhere to go!

 I was supposed to meet a friend for coffee this morning but unfortunately her house suffered the wrath of Storm Isha last night so she's awaiting a builder and we've postponed our date until next week. 


I'm wearing an old favourite, an Anokhi maxi dress  bought from their flagship store in Jaipur, Rajasthan's Pink City, back in January 2019 along with a reversible block printed jacket from Kharibu (from whom I bought my Pre-Raphaelite moss green velvet maxi).
 

This dress holds so many memories of India, from backpacking around Rajasthan, drinking in swanky bars in downtown Mumbai & staying in Portuguese-era heritage hotels in Goa to our closer-to-home travels in Greece and Spain along with National Trust days out, nights on the town, mornings spent rummaging the rails in the charity shops of the West Midlands and those endless days spent at home during Lockdown.


Two of my favourite memories were of risking life and limb to pose on a turret overlooking the 17th Century step well in Jodhpur and of having a chat with the saffron-turbaned sadhu in a remote village in Rajasthan where he asked me if I'd voted for Brexit (the answer, of course, was a resounding, No!)


Around the same time as I bought the dress, Bollywood royalty Sara Ali Khan was snapped by the Times of India wearing it around Mumbai although sadly, our paths never crossed.



I kept the Anokhi tag as, not being used to buying clothes from proper shops, having a fancy cardboard label attached to a garment remains a bit of a novelty and I've kept it in one of my travel journals for posterity. It describes the dress as a Cotton Peshwaz, which was said to be one of the most opulent forms of Moghul clothing for women. Originating in Persia, it was introduced to India during Babur's reign (1483 - 1530) and comprises of a fitted bodice with a full skirt which fastened at the waist (mine has a side zip). Due to the way the dress was cut at the front, women were required to wear a choli (blouse) underneath, my modern version came with a black cotton camisole top.

An early Twentieth century Peshwaz snapped when we visited in the National Museum of India in New Delhi in 2019

This 18th Century Peshwaz is on display in the V&A


My journal tells me that I paid 3350 rupees for my dress (around £35 back in 2019), expensive by Indian standards but to me, it's an absolute bargain for an ethically made, timeless classic and the memories entwined within the fabric are priceless.


With temperatures below zero for most of last week, eBay photos took a back seat and, in between swimming, charity shopping and socialising, when we met Liz & Al at the cinema for artisan pizza, red wine & another viewing of Poor Things, I managed to squeeze in some reading - finishing William Morris by Himself and Hilary Mantel's Beyond Black which, once I'd started, realised that I'd already read. On the pile this week are The Final Confession of Mabel Stark and A Scandalous Life: The Biography of Jane Digby (which I'm already halfway through).

Lady Jane Digby (1807 - 1881) - William Charles Ross

I first heard of Lady Jane Digby, a notorious aristocratic beauty born in Dorset in 1807, when we visited the mountain village of Doukades in Corfu (HERE) last year. At 17, Lady Jane married Lord Ellenborough, the governor-general of India and scandalised English society by having an torrid affair with her cousin before falling head over heels with an German prince, divorcing her husband and moving to Germany. After enjoying a close relationship with Ludwig I of Bavaria, she married Baron Karl von Venningen of Munich before embarking on an affair with the Greek Count, Spyridon Theotokis. After a duel between her love rivals she divorced the baron, converted to the Greek Orthodox faith and married Spyridon. The couple moved to his family home in Doukades. After the marriage broke down Lady Jane was rumoured to have had an affair with Greece's King Otto before meeting General Christodoulos Hatziperos, hero of the Greek War for Independence, where she acted as his queen, living in caves, riding horses and hunting. Lady Jane then travelled to the Middle East and fell in love with Sheik Medjuel el Mezrab, who was twenty years her junior. The couple married under Muslim law and stayed together until her death 28 years later. Lady Jane adopted native dress, lived a nomadic lifestyle in tents in the desert and learned Arabic in addition to the eight languages in which she was already fluent. What a woman!

Lady Jane Digby in Palmyra (1859) by Carl Haag

The Kinky Shed is full to bursting after our fab friends Graz & Steve from Moseley Vintage Hub did some negotiating on our behalf and acquired a large personal collection of clothing amassed between the 1940s and 1980s and I've spent most of the weekend washing, steaming and sewing on buttons. 


I couldn't resist snaffling this groovy wool-blend maxi dress, made by Shelana of London, a British Boutique label which ceased to exist sometime in the early '80s. Obviously this is from the 1970s with its have-yer-eye-out dagger collars!


Along with the job lot, we've managed to find some cool stuff recently, weather permitting I'll try and share a bit of it with you sometime soon. In the meantime I'll leave you with William who, this time last year, was just an occasional visitor to the garden.


Spoilt, moi?


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  1. The Anokhi dress look beautiful on you as does the groovy one. Travelling to India must have been quite an experience.

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    1. Thank you! We've not been since 2020 but travelled there about 35 times, it was always a wonderful experience! xxx

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  2. very fun dresses! do you think you'll ever go back to india? i love your kitty. black cats are my fave-we have one our daughter named pinky ponky. -kelly

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    1. Thanks, Kelly! Pinky Ponky! I bet that's funny when you're waiting to be called into see the vet. We will go back to India eventually but we're really enjoying the novelty of flying short haul at the moment and the cost of India flights seem to have doubled from our last trip in 2020! xxx

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  3. I love when you teach us history. Well, Lady Jane has certainly led an interesting life. It's like she'd lived lives of five women, not one....or even more. Duels and what not! She was certainly brave to try her hand at love so many times and to embrace so many different cultures on the way. The best thing about the clothes are the stories they tell. Your Indian dress certainly has a lot to tell.
    I enjoyed seeing the different occasions you wore it, from more recent to past ones. So lovely to see pictures of India again. P.S. Yes, back then everyone wanted to know about Brexit!
    P.S.S. How lovely to see that a Bollywood star wore the same dress.
    The wool maxi dress is fabulous too!

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    1. Thanks, Ivana! I'm loving the story of Lady Jane, it's almost like she was born two hundred years too early, nobody would bat an eyelid at those antics these days.
      That's the problem with throwaway fashion, it's in people's wardrobes for such a short amount of time there's no chance of a garment developing a story. I like to think that clothes made in decent conditions, like the Anokhi workshops, carry good karma in their fibres so you can't fail but to have a good time wearing them.
      It's only in the last two years that people have stopped asking us about Brexit when we leave the country, I hated having to apologise for something I disliked as much as they did! xxx

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  4. What wonderful memories associated with that beautiful dress!
    Lady Jane was fluent in eight languages? Goodness me! She must have done a lot of studying in those tents! ;-D
    How incredible that you've acquired a personal collection of vintage clothing. The tartan maxi dress looks great on you!
    A slow blink to William! xxx

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    1. It's been a brilliant travel dress, those earthy tones disguise any creases or stains a treat! It took me an age to decide to buy it, everything in the shop is gorgeous.
      I love Lady Jane, she was the female version of Byron. I've just got to the part where she's travelling with the Bedouins, I'm amazed she had time for anything when you read the extracts from her diaries, she didn't get a lot of sleep!
      William loves the blinking game, he's an outrageous flirt! xxx

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  5. What a life Lady Jane led! She's the spitting image of the actress who played Jane Bennett in the 1996 BBC version of Pride and prejudice.
    I love that Anokhi dress of yours. Hsve contemplated a short-sleeved version of it several times over the past few years.
    Can't wait to see more of the collection of clothes! Kx

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    1. Susannah Harker? Yes! You're right. The classic English rose but judging by the biography, a lot more interesting than the usual upper class simpering heroine!
      It's such a versatile dress, excellent in India when I needed a bit of upper arm coverage if I was wandering off the beaten track or visiting a temple and didn't want to offend anyone baring a scandalous shoulder.
      Fingers crossed that the wind dies down and I can take a few photos! xxx

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  6. One could say that William is well ensconced chez Vix and Jon! Your Anokhi dress bought in Jodphur is beautiful and you look far better in yours than Sara Ali Khan does in hers. It's a timeless dress, I think. How lovely you got a job lot of vintage clothing; the 1970's dress you modelled was gorgeous and looked lovely on you. That Lady Jane sounds like a marvellous woman...
    xxx

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    1. Isn't he just? Fresh chicken, a tunnel, a mountain of toys, a catio and two human slaves!
      The Anokhi dress was such a good buy, even five years on it gets admired constantly and looks as fresh as it was new, the gold stamping really glitters in the sunlight.
      That Shelana dress is such a blast from the past, I remember having a green midi of theirs when I did work experience in the sixth form! xxx

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  7. That dress is an absolute beauty, and how wonderful to have such a wealth of experiences and memories woven in its fabric. I do remember that photo of you posing on that turret and once again felt a bit wobbly-legged looking at it!
    Lady Jane Digby's life story sounds truly fascinating!
    I can't wait to see more of that job lot of clothes. Judging from that groovy 1970s maxi its previous owner had a fantastic taste in clothing.
    It looks like William is even more spoilt than our Bess. But only just :-) xxx

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    1. Thanks, Ann! Everytime I put it on I feel like a princess, it's such a lovely easy dress to wear and always gets compliments. Jon hated it when I posed for that photo.
      Lady Jane Digby was such an interesting woman, I'm surprised there hasn't been a film made about her, she made the front pages back in the day!
      It's fascinating acquiring someone's lifetime collection of clothes, you learn so much about who they must have been.
      Don't tell Bess about William's penchant for fresh chicken or she'll be refusing her cat food, too! xxx

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  8. Lady Jane sounded like a real adventurer who wasn't afraid to take what she wanted from life. I imagine she was a good conversationalist with all those languages! Your Jaipur dress is wonderful.. I loved the Jaipur shop too, in fact I visit an Anokhi in every city when we go to India! their patterns and block prints are really beautiful and timeless. The 1970s job lot looks interesting :) Betty

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    1. Hello Betty! She was centuries ahead of her time. I find it interesting that Lord Byron became a folk hero whereas Jane seems to have written out of history. Id love to visit her grave in Damascus, it was made using pink marble brought specially from Palmyra.
      Visiting the Anokhi shops was always a highlight when we went to India, their Museum of Black Printing below Amber Fort in Rajasthan is one of the best museums ever and their cafe in Delhi does the best salads known to man! The trouble was that all the clothes were so beautiful it took me ages to decide on what I should buy! xxx

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  9. The turret photo is impressive, it looks amazing. Your Anokhi maxi dress suits you beautiful. Have a nice evening Vix

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    1. It was such fun posing for a photo on the turret, Jon was almost too scared to hold the camera, he hates heights! xxx

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  10. How peculiar...Blogger is working for me here, but not on my blog again! If you enjoy a scandalous lady you might enjoy looking up Mrs Rudd! Do you have records of what/where/when and how much you pay for all your clothes and accessories? I've just rediscovered a skirt I had forgotten I had and no excuses really as I don't have masses of clothes for me to forget! Arilx

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    1. That's odd but it's lovely to see your little icon pop up, I've missed it! I shall investigate Mrs Rudd, I do love a feisty female who bucked convention!
      I have the memory of an elephant, I can tell you where everything in my wardrobe/on my dressing table came from and how much I paid - which is quite a claim when you see how much stuff I own! xxx

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  11. Keeping the tags from the dress made me smile and brought back a memory of my youngest son.

    Between his brother and his cousin, he had lots of hand me downs in his early years (they grow so fast that very little got worn out). Well, back in the height of the 101 Dalmations craze I bought him a summer shorts set with the cartoon characters. He saved the tags, kept them in his sock drawer! I found him holding them and saying "mine". I hadn't realized until that moment he'd been dressed entirely in hand me downs!

    I'm intrigued by the dress in the museum. Are multiple underskirts meant to be worn to get the fullness?

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    1. That's so cute! It's rather sweet that your son appreciated his dalmatians shorts set enough to want to keep the tags isn't it? My Mum never understood why anyone would waste money on buying kids new clothes if they could help it. When we went on holiday she'd occasionally buy new stuff from Marks & Spencers, make us keep the tags on when we wore it and take them back for a refund when we were home - I wonder if that's where I get the tab keeping thing from?
      I think the Peshwaz were made with a lining and worn with those wide legged trousers cuffed at the ankle. Can you imagine the work that must have gone into that one at the V&A? xxx

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  12. Beautiful dress and you wear it superbly. Always a delight to see Sir William. Hugs.

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  13. Would it be extremely rude to point out that this wonderful dress looks a hell of a lot better on you than on Ms Khan?

    You are right about clothes holding memories: I have a few garments which I might never wear again but I’m damned if I will let them go because of what they represent. By the same token, at the end of last year I ruthlessly culled a large quantity of good condition items which held memories I no longer wanted around. Wonderful to have all that negative energy in a bin bag and on the way to a charity shop.

    Look forward to seeing some of the latest vintage haul, well done Graz & Steve.

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    1. Its not rude, just tremendously flattering, cheers!
      I'm with you on clothes holding bad memories, too - it doesn't matter how lovely they are I can't bear to hold on to something I wore when something horrible happened. I feel guilty selling them in case the bad Karma passes on to someone else! xxx

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  14. I liked the world better when Persia was still called Persia. Those Peshwaz dresses are divine. I wonder if that's where the Empire Line originated?I was watching one of Rick Stein's progs from India the other day and he was in Kerala and he said it really was paradise.I have a Kinky Melon tag which I treasure!

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    1. The word Persia is so evocative, isn't it? That's a great point about Empire line! I'll have to investigate further. I loved that Rick Stein series, the hut on a beach in South India which he claimed served the best food in India was somewhere we'd eaten years previously.
      I love that you've still got a Kinky tag.xxx

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    2. It's me!!!She who shall fix her techy issues before much longer! Forgot to say, the pic of Lady Jane in her Bedouin garb is so gorgeous. Like those old pics you used to get in biblical tomes?Did you watch Senorita89 at weekend?

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    3. I thought that picture of Lady Jane looked like one of those biblical images. Apparently she dyed her hair with henna as she was fed up with the locals pulling at her blonde locks and added a false plat to make her hair look even more dramatic.
      I didn't realise Senorita89 was being screened, I've read good things bout it! Off to add it to my must watch list! xxx

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  15. Le sigh .. that Anokhi dress is just lovely (and suits you so well). I have a kaftan-esque garment from 'old' East which has panels of a very similar print as the one in your dress skirt. It's an Anokhi for .... item - it has been in my sewing pile since I bought it (off eBay) as it is too long and makes me look like I'm wearing a duvet cover lol. I need to take it in and hem it but I cringe at the thought of cutting it. In other news, I bought a Dilli Grey top for FIVE QUID in a charity shop on Sunday (original tag £89). Loong forward to seeing more of your newly-acquired swag! Kisses for William xxx
    https://www.folkwear.com/en-gb/blogs/news/history-of-the-empire-dress

    Elaine Anon

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    1. Loong forward??? Looking forward lol

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    2. Hello Elaine! I know that East kaftan, I've often admired it when I've seen it on eBay but feared it may be a bit voluminous even for my tent-like standards.
      What an amazing bargain with the Dilli Grey top! Who on earth would have donated that? They' seem to keep their value even on Vinted!
      Right, off to follow the link! xxx

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  16. Oh, William, how the mighty have fallen...in love! What a cutie.

    Gosh, doesn't 2019 feel so long ago? What a lovely dress - fun to revisit it, and I love when I find a celebrity wearing something I've got.

    How exciting, a vintage closet! Love the dress you snapped for yourself - I see you're wearing my favourite belt too! Happy week ahead, hoping you get warmer weather soon, Vix!

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    1. William's such a cutie, I'm besotted!
      2019 seems such a long time ago, I swear those pandemic years lasted far longer than a normal year! xxx

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  17. Thank you for taking us along on your adventures
    I know you put a great deal into your blogging - I wanted to let you know that even though I do not comment often these days , I read every post
    Siobhan x

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    1. IT's lovely to hear from you, Siobhan. I hope things are okay with you. xxx

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  18. Hola Vix, desde luego el vestido lo luces tu 1000 veces mejor que la belleza india. Amo tu blog , me evoca una vida bonita y mucho amor por lo que haces. Gracias, es una delicia leer publicaciones tan valiosas
    Blanca

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    1. Hola Blanca! Muchas gracias por el enorme cumplido y tu amable comentario. Me has alegrado el día. Mucho amor, Vix xxx

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  19. No wonder that Anokhi maxi dress is a favourite of you, it's a gorgeous piece and it was sported in some fabulous occasions. Lovely photos and great memories!
    And so amazing to know a little bit about this kind of dresses, their origin and evolution!, so beautifully built clothes!
    Wow, I'm fascinated by Lady Jane Digby and cannot say anything better than your own words: 'What A Woman!'.
    Great news that you're having Kinky Shed full to bursting!
    besos

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    1. Thanks, Monica! I was surprised that I'd owned it for five years, whenever I slip that dress on it feels as fresh and exciting as it did when I tried it on in Jaipur half a decade ago!
      Lady Jane Digby led such an interesting life, I wonder if she'd been more famous had she been a man? xxx

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  20. I love when either clothes, jewelry reminds you of something or someone, this Anokhi dress seems to hold lots of memories entwined to your trip to India, which sounds like a dream and a place that's actually in my travel bucket list! It becomes a special treasure and you reminisce in said memories whenever you wear it plus create new ones even if you're not at the place where you got it from.
    This is exactly what I've been reflecting on lately when it comes to clothes, jewelry, home decor, etc. I guess I just love things that have their own story, it sounds more interesting and fascinating to me. I never really paid attention to this nor did it matter, but now I do start to care and love going through this moments of reflection and your blog, your writing, even your sense of fashion and style has motivated and inspired me and kinda changed my chip (mind) in a very positive way. I really would like to say that I love and enjoy reading your blog, my best find this 2024 so far! :)
    Sending you lots of love all the way from Barranquilla, Colombia and a very warm hug! Take care! Have a lovely day and rest of the week! xx

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    1. Thanks for your kind and thoughtful words, Melissa. I want everything to tell a story, I couldn't just go into a supermarket and toss a cheap dress into my basket with the week's groceries and get tired of it quicker than the sell-by date on the food I'd bought. Almost everything I own has a story behind it, I remember the excitement of spotting it and how much I paid for it!
      Sending lots of love to you in Barranquilla, Columbia. Your write so well, I've added your blog to my side bar so my visitors can enjoy your blog as much as me. xxx

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  21. You wear that dress (and so many of your others) so well, and isn't it nice to have an item of clothing with so many lovely memories attached. All dressed up and nowhere to go? You need to have a work with Lord Jon and suggest a Wetherspoons supper.

    Oh William is totally a housecat and home-bird now, he's lost all his macho 'I'm a tough cat and I'm in charge' image ... he's almost on a par with our Ginger. ;-)

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    1. Have a WORD not a work ... you definintely don't want a work!!

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    2. I definitely don't want to work! I've spent most of today avoiding it (although I did a good job of supervising Jon cleaning the hob!)
      You spoke to soon, William's come back today with a scratch on his nose, I suspect he's been next door and upset their Kitty! xxx

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  22. What a lovely story behind your Anoki dress. It's always fun when you spot someone wearing the same dress as you. I recently found a photo of Lana del Rey wearing a dress very similar to one I have. X

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    1. How exciting, Jess! Rhianna has the same vintage Ossie Clark dress as me! xxx

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  23. What a life Lady Jane had!

    £35 seems cheap when you consider it's ethically made. I'm increasingly growing to loathe fast fashion - it's no good for people or the planet. And I'm not sure it's ultimately good for the wearer, having no style of their own apart from 'always new'. It's got to eat away at their sense of self and their stability.

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    1. Lady Jane needs to have a Netflix miniseries made in her honour.
      £35 was such a bargain, even better when you know that everyone from the cotton farmers, dyers, block printers and seamstresses were all paid a fair wage and worked in good conditions.
      Oh yeah, so many people - especially those vacuous influencers - don't have their own style, it changes by the season. there's so much good secondhand stuff around it makes far more sense to invest in ethically made pieces and if you feel the need to wear something different make it or trawl the chazzas and resellers online. xxx

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  24. Black cats are the BEST (I may be a bit biased). My, Lady Jane certainly was a busy woman, wasn't she. As you mention in your comment above, she really does deserve a Netflix series. That gorgeous dress was worth every penny (and more) of the price you paid for it. Sorry for not commenting more regularly - I read your posts when I can and always enjoy them.

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