Friday 19 March 2021

The Distancing Diaries - 18th & 19th March, 2021


On Thursday morning I did a load of washing and, as the sky was looking somewhat ominous, hung it up in the utility room, then did my Wii Fit workout. I'd just finished replying to blog comments when Jon got up. After our breakfast, I sorted out the cupboard under the sink as I couldn't find anything in there. The binmen arrived, took our bins and litter-picking sacks away with them, giving us the thumbs up (we're in their gang now, keeping the streets of Walsall clean).

Armed with our grab sticks, gloves and sacks - and arms no longer aching - we did a litter pick of Church Hill. As usual, we did opposite sides but remained visible to one another. Jon saw a man taking my photo (to which I was totally oblivious). Further along, another man, assuming I was alone, started making kissing noises at me. This is the grim reality of being a woman, we are harassed all the fecking time. Predatory men aside, we managed to collect four sacks of litter before Jon broke his grab stick trying to fettle a whisky bottle from the undergrowth. 

Back at home, after our lunchtime noodles, I wrapped my latest eBay sales and spent the afternoon stitching another banner. 


Wear:Sleep: Repeat! You can just about see the Anokhi jacket I'd worn on Wednesday peeking out from beneath Liz's old Elgee coat. I'm wearing an Indian gauzy cotton midi dress (eBay) underneath and my latest crocheted hat.


The details: Vintage Liberty silk scarf (car boot sale,2009), Turkmen earrings (eBay), high heeled wellies (jumble sale) and some vintage label porn.


Tea was a Morrison's Finest veggie Moroccan parcel served with spiced couscous and some sticky roasted veg. The previous evening we'd started watching subtitled Dutch cop series Amsterdam Vice and loved it. Loud, lairy and set in the 1980s, just our kind of thing. We watched another couple of episodes. I also watched Ten Years Younger for the first time since it moved from the BBC in 2010. It's lovely to see women buzzing with confidence but man, the skintight clothes and plastic-y stilettoes they dress them in, are dreadful. 

Friday was a dank, cold and drizzly day. I put away the previous day's laundry, did the final workout of the week and joined Jon in the kitchen for breakfast. When he went out to do the post office and supermarket run I swept and mopped the kitchen floor


There's a cat colony living in the old windmill up the road and there are signs up asking that passers-by refrain from feeding them as that they are already being cared for. Every so often we'll get a visit from an inquisitive tom. I hadn't seen this big boy before this morning but Stephen and Frank didn't seem too bothered by him. 


Richard arrived with the post. I spotted this early Anokhi beauty on eBay at the weekend and my heart skipped a beat, I was thrilled when the seller was kind enough to accept my offer. She'd noted that there were "issues" in that two buttons were missing but that there were three spares inside.


Within 30 minutes of signing for my parcel, unwrapping it, washing my hands and reattaching the buttons, the blouse was ready to wear. 


There are lots of things listed on eBay as "like Anokhi" or "possibly Anokhi but the labels have fallen off". Some sellers mistakenly think Anokhi is a term to describe Indian block print and others are just trying to pull the wool over your eyes. If it doesn't have a label it probably isn't what they claim it is.


My other package? Not quite as exciting, just the black cotton twill tape I'd ordered to make a sash for my Hmong dress, a simple way to make any shapeless dress fit a bit better.


1. Cut your tape in half with pinking shears, to reduce fraying.
2. Carefully unpick a section of the side seam, or the front panel, depending on the style of your dress.
3.Insert 1/4" of your tape into the gap of the unpicked section.
4. Sew the seams shut. I do mine by hand as I'm a touchy-feely hippy and like to connect with my clothes.



By the time I'd finished my sewing, Jon was back (he'd swung by Tony's on the way back) so I helped him sanitise the shopping and put it away before we tucked into our lunchtime noodles.

After lunch, I hung my latest banner in the avenue. There's no polite way of telling irresponsible dog owners to clean up after their pets, is there?


As the drizzle had subsided, I photographed some menswear in the garden and listed it on eBay, a bizarre mix of snazzy jackets and Indian cotton grandad shirts because that's what caught my eye in the Kinky shed.


Jon shuffled a couple of the V Dubs around and had a fiddle about with them. Once he'd finished we went for a walk around the block wishing halfway around that we'd taken a sack and a grab stick with us, it'll have to wait till tomorrow. 

Wear:Sleep: Repeat continued with Thursday's Indian cotton gauze midi dress, this time topped with a Phool quilted waistcoat (2018, Eyewood Vintage), my M&S Heatgen leggings and a Reiss felted wool fedora (both from eBay).


The details: Clarks' Orinocho Club boots, Afghan cuffs and earrings (all eBay), coin necklace (made by me from an old anklet).

Sixty-eight days into my challenge and I'm still having tremendous fun with my wardrobe.


Tea was half a pizza with jacket wedges and a liberal sprinkling of fresh, home-grown basil (and a cheeky glass of wine).

Tonight we'll be continuing with Amsterdam Vice with a break for Gardener's World at 9pm -  something we'd never have dreamed of watching before lockdown - and there will be rum.

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Stay safe and see you soon!

PS Hello, Catmac!

62 comments:

  1. I'm going to link your post to a couple friends to show their mom's your dress repair. I'm sure they will be thrilled to see the dress preserved and loved. I'm so sorry you get vulgar yelling at you when you re just trying to go for a walk and doing a good thing. What makes a man, any person, decide they have this right?

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    1. I hope your friends approve of my alterations, Sam.
      I wonder if people are so conditioned by social media to comment at every opportunity that they can't just walk past a complete stranger without saying something? xxx

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  2. Hi Vix, here’s an idea: Stitch signs for the pervs warning other women about them. Make them big and colorful, and throw them around the perverts’ necks when you encounter them, or maybe Job will fix them to their backs so you don’t have to get too close.

    Love your latest banner. We have dogs so we understand the importance of cleaning up after them. If they’re that inconsiderate you do have to be as direct as your sign.

    I looked your noodles up - they look tasty and a nice winter pick me up. Speaking of pick me ups - that home-grown basil and your colorful
    outfits are some of my mental signatures for your blog - really nice ones! I look forward to reading about your weather and what it holds for you this first weekend of spring - yes, I’ve been in lockdown that long. It’s drizzly here, too, in Silicon Valley, and chilly for us.

    Who knew a year ago you’d be in the same exclusive club as the binmen?

    I love vocabulary and familiar with many Brit words, but don’t recall before reading “lairy.” Looked it up - what a fun word!

    That Big Boy kitty is lovely! Oooh so is that new Anokhi.

    I told my husband about Gardener’s World. He looked it up and said, “That show is older than I am!” That inspired me to look it up and wow - does it have past controversies! Made me laugh over my morning coffee. What a relief it got back on track.

    Now time for a cuppa and lunch time mushroom empanada. Wishing you both a lovely, litter-free weekend.

    - Cozy Cottage in California

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    1. Hello CCC! I love your idea of tossing a sign around the offender's necks.
      The dog owners I see walking past the house always clean up after their pets, I think the guilty parties must sneak about in the dead of night so nobody will catch them in the act.
      It sounds like we're sharing weather, it's been very gloomy here all weekend although the drizzle disappeared fairly early in the morning.
      Gardener's World is a bit of an instution. It's a wonderfully relaxing watch as the presenter, the very lovely Monty Don potters around his gorgeous garden accompanied by his dogs.
      I'm liking the sound of that mushroom empanada. I hope you had a fabulous weekend. xxx

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  3. I have a suggestion as to what Jon should do with his grabstick next time some perv makes inappropriate gestures at you. You'd think people had more time to exercise their dogs and pick up after them accordingly. It's become a big problem up here over the course of the last year. So disgusting to look at especially smothered over the pavements when your trying to drop off or pick up kids from nursery/school. My local council have had so many complaints about it that they're employing another dog warden to try and alleviate the problem. I'm really looking forward to Gardener's World. Got my veggie seeds planted the other day in glorious sunshine (16 degrees here yesterday!). Love your new blouse, love the V-dubs even more!Have a great weekend, M'Lady.xxx

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    1. Forgot to say, last week's 'curry' prog was about Sri Lankan cuisine and don't forget Sunday, 'Line of Duty'!!

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    2. The streets are just awash with it since lockdown, you'd think with so much time on their hands nobody would be too busy to clean up their dog's sh*t. I've noticed its worse outside schools, do we blame the parents for being too busy gossiping to be arsed to clean up?
      I've seen that you've been treated to some lovely warm weather up in Scotland, it never reached us!
      So excited about Line of Duty and loved the Sri Lankan cookery programme (lovely to see George and his family!) xxx

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  4. I love that dress, of course I do! I like your turd banner too. I like Big Boy he looks like he could worm his way into your affections. Interesting how you adjusted your dress, I need to do something with my tan paisley smock dress to give it a waist, so will keep your instructions in mind :) my choker is getting a blog worthy mention on my next post !x

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    1. Thank you! Indian dresses and turd banners, I'm nothing if not eclectic! xxx

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  5. The other day just out of curiosity, I thought I'd have a go at finding your house on Google, just using information from places you've mentioned. Took me about 5 minutes haha The sight of Gilbert sitting in the drive was the clincher. I love that you do the litter sweep of your area, such a lovely, interesting place to live. I envy your clothing finds too, love your style

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    1. Hah! I loved that you did that. Gilbert looks rather snazzy, doesn't he? xxx

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  6. Our dogs do their business and the stand and supervise the pick up! Our newest addition weighs 8lbs and the husband jokes that "big dog" poops 8lbs a day.

    Husband was driving a 74 Beetle when we married (Bugsy still is around and in our youngest son's garage) and is currently driving one of their SUVs.

    Hope the weather holds. We are too warm for this time of year.

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    1. You've got your dogs very well trained!
      I'm very happy that Bugsy is still around and living in your youngest son's garage. We've had a couple of Beetles over the years, I wish Jon hadn't sold them.
      It's about time you had some warm weather, your winter seemed to drag on for ages. xxx

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  7. Your new Anokhi blouse is amazing, what a find.
    The children from the local infant school attached signs to the lamp posts about picking up dog poo but I can’t remember what they said. I’ll wrack my brains and let you know. It was a foul,e of years ago when it was happening a lot.
    Glad you’re both okay after your jabs. My brother has had his today and my sister has hers tomorrow. We are moving forward now aren’t we.
    I’m finding that Loved Clothes Last book good. Thanks for the heads up. It’s going to a friend who repairs her clothes with Boro stitching after. She made me the beautiful travelling sewing kit.
    Have a good weekend you two. Xxx

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    1. Itsn't that blouse a beauty? What a shame I won't be going somewhere posh in it!
      If you think of some catchy phrases for cleaning up after dogs so let me know. I think I need a few more of those!
      I'm glad that your brother and sister had their jabs. All us 50 somethings have had ours now, it's just poor Al who might have a long wait being such a youngster!
      Loved Clothes Last is such a good read, isn't it? I was horrified about how long it takes for certain fabrics to biodegrade - 500 years for a fake fur coat! Awful.
      Have a smashing weekend. xxx

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  8. Is treating women as objects, just part of the culture, or the area? In America I suppose there are places people would act like this, but usually if it goes over the line other men will step in, I just feel bad that you can't walk your own streets in broad daylight and not be harassed.

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    1. I'm not sure about culture as it seems to transcend all classes, age groups and cultures. I'm not sure if where I live is worse than most of just that i don't drive so anywhere I go without Jon is on foot making me more visible. xxx

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  9. I am going to get a t shirt printed saying women are not objects see how they like that. I have started to take the car again to work as my anxiety has got so bad I won’t go on the train, I thought I had gotten past it but it’s reared it’s ugly head again as the same as if I can’t see an exit I have a panic attack. I’m ok with Paul but on my own I’m a nightmare.
    Love the blouse it will look a treat on you, I read that loved clothes last. I enjoyed it, some facts I already knew some interesting, some I thought were like an environmental manifesto which is good. If she came to japan she would be impressed what we do in harajuku nothing goes to waste.
    Trust Jon to break his stick he’s a very naughty boy!! Keep sign bombing I just hope they don’t get trashed. Some twit will great joy In destroying something so beautiful. Keep up the good work.
    I used to love van der Valk I don’t know why part of my growing up I suppose. Keep safe and well

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    1. Victims Support put me on a self-defence course and I learnt all about escape routes with the instructor. I still don't think I'd be any good at defending myself if I came under attack again though, I'd just freeze with fear.
      I'm always wary but I refuse to let the harrasment put me off going out alone when the rare opportunity presents itself although. Stay strong!
      Jon's mended his stick so I dodn't have to report him to the council.He used to love Van der Valk when it was repeated on daytime TV, I think they did a remake last year. xxx

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  10. Hubby is just like Jon, never happier than when he's tinkering with something whether it's cars, bikes, DIY or out in the garden. Saves a fortune, we rarely have to pay anyone to do a job!

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    1. You can't get better than a man who likes to tinker! xxx

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  11. Before I read the comments already here I was thinking of what you or Jon could do with the litter-picking stick . . . unbelievable that you were abused twice in such a short space of time, and whilst in view of J. And whilst you may not have been physically assaulted, it is abuse. Bl**dy disgraceful - do you think it is in part where you live because I realise how blessed I am that I can't imagine the same thing happening here?

    Take care sweetie, xx

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    1. It's like they have no control over their behaviour, this constant need to pass comment on any female in their path. xxx

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    1. The turd sign is brilliant Vix! I think those men need turds flinging at their heads. I'll have to check out the Amsterdam cop thing. I love Amsterdam and have been many times. What a clever hack for the Hmong dress. I usually tie a scarf around my waist, but this is much more sophisticated.

      I'd be careful of that Windmill cat posse if I were you. They obviously have 'patrollers' out and they look like they mean business.

      Lulu xXx

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    2. It would be one use for the turds, wouldn't it?
      Amsterdam Vice is brilliant. I've never been to Amsterdam but always fancied it and now, even more so. It's got a bit of Life on Mars about the series, very graphic and violent but with a good dollop of humour, too.
      I'd give all those cats a home if it was up to me xxx

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  13. Good morning, I love your cheeky banners, think I will make some for round here, dog poo is such a walking hazard, I hate horrible people who don't clear up after their dog or just as bad sling a poo sack full up into our garden grr!! Love your wear and repeat you look fab as ever. Really like your hand made hats, how many do you have now? We have just binge watched Amsterdam Vice love the names Donkers being our favourite. My husband has Flemish ancestry and can follow some of the language it is such fun. Take care and thank you for your marvellous blog - it really lifts the spirits. Regards Sue H xx

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    1. Lovely to meet you, Sue! Bob Donkers is our new favourite name, it sounds like it should belong to a portly cat never mind a podiatrist turned gangster!
      That's brilliant that your husband can follow some of the language, I'm surprised at how many English words spoken.
      I'm not sure how many hats I've got - too many, Jon would probably say. Thank goodness I've discovered craftivism to keep my hands active! xxx

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  14. Your handmade banners always bring a smile to my face. I love the tartan coat you wore with an Indian cotton midi dress and the cap. Such a pretty combo!

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  15. I was about to recommend Amsterdam Vice to you, polyester suits, nylon nighties and all... the plot twist at the start surprised me too. On my first visit to Amsterdam I remember my friend, a young professor who had to leave me to explore while he taught, drawing a line around the red light district and telling me not to go there on my own - this would have been around 1983 - so of course the first thing I did was make a beeline and loved the seedy atmosphere.

    I laughed out loud when I saw your dog turd sign. I used to be on my local parish council which installed and emptied dog bins in the village, and the number of people who left bags of poo within 10 metres of the bins was baffling and frustrating. But at least they bagged them, many didn't, and it was always much worse in winter when people thought they couldn't be seen ignoring their dog's mess. There were these dinky 'dog poo fairy' stickers the council provided to encourage people, but I think your approach would have been much more effective.
    Perhaps because I lived in London for so long I don't really have a problem with annoying people, whether they're leery or chuggers or drunks; you learn to automatically shut them down or shut them out. Wherever you go there are annoying people but it's not purely a male/female thing and I do worry that young women are being encouraged to think of themselves as victims too much. I see interviews with women saying they're afraid to go out at night and all this media attention seems to be creating a climate of fear (again). Have attacks on women really risen, or is it that the reporting of it has become more common, just as in the last 50 years most people think child kidnap and murder has become much more frequent because of the way it's reported? Conversely there's the fact that many sexual assaults go unreported and much violence against women happens behind closed doors so I'm finding it hard to navigate these issues. There's just something nagging at me saying that candlelit vigils are not the most effective sort of fuss to make and we (men and women) need to look at why many women don't have the confidence to walk down a dark street or don't confront the next idiot who says something sexist and empower ourselves to do these things.
    Now, stepping down from my soapbox and putting down my copy of the Female Eunuch, that blouse is just stunning and I've been stocking up on Maybelline lipsticks - the lip crayons are as cheap as £2.95 on Ebay at the moment so I have treated myself to half a dozen to try out some new shades.

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    1. Amsterdam Vice is excellent. I was reading up on it and discovered that the first two episodes were actually a hit film and the series was devised afterwards. I like that there's plenty of humour despite the violence.
      I think I need some more dog poo banners, I'm hoping if people think we're watching them they might be a bit more thoughtful about disposal although I'm probably being a little too optimistic.
      The cat calling and obnoxious behaviour has pretty much commonplace throughout my life. It never used to warrant a mention on my blog before lockdown and the only reason I've mentioned it recently is because I'm recording all the mundanity of my day-to-day life and of the only two occasions I went out without Jon in the last year I've got been both chased and kerb crawled neither of which I reported to the police as I thought they'd got more than enough on their hands to deal with. I agree with your very valid points, it's hard to call but it won't stop me from walking into town alone although, thirty years on from my sexual assault, I still freeze with fear and break out in a cold sweat when I hear footsteps behind me.
      On a brighter note £2.95 for the lip crayons? I've heard some good things about them, I might have to investigate. xxx

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  16. The Kinky shed is the shed that keeps on giving! It must be bursting at the seams...

    Love your new banner and no there is no other way to tell the dirty feckers to clean up after their animals. Talking of new things your new jacket is a sight to behold; beautiful!

    As for predatory men I've noticed much less unwanted male attention since I let my hair go grey. They see the hair and think 'old bag' - mostly!

    Well done you and Jon on your litter picking; what a shame about Jon's grab stick. I hope a replacement is on its way!
    xxx

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    1. I still keep finding stuff in there that we'd both forgotten existed!
      I had to giggle embroidering "turd" in chainstitch, I wonder what my junior school sewing teacher would have made of it?
      You're definitely not an old bag, I reckon you walk too fast for them! xxx

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  17. Good afternoon there Vix, love the latest sign. I think that gauze dress is so pretty. I also think that you two will never just go for a stroll again without the grab sticks, you sure are doing a great job. No wonder you are in the binmens' club. I always say to my boys they are amongst the people we would miss most if they went on strike. Let us hope that jobs that have kept the country ticking are more appreciated now. More and more of my friends have had the jab and so far so good every one having not one side effect. I have been sorting a bookkeeping query out all day grr grr we both know there are far more fun things to do but the hubster works so bloody hard it is the least I can do for him. by the way that pizza looks so scrummy. sorry to hear you got hassled again. Shazxx

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    1. Hello and thank you, Shaz! We love our binmen, they've always been lovely but now they'll pull the wagon over and collect our litter-picking from us rather than having to drag it home.
      You are good sorting out the books, a job I loathe.
      I'm so glad that your jab went well and they are zooming through your friends' arms, too. Loads of love. xxx

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  18. Ugh, the awful men just never stop do they? I have a head full of grey hair and I still get that crap. I'm going to start carrying a heavy walking stick with a brass handle.

    Online shopping is quite the experience. There's an instagram account (misguided vintage) devoted to all the bad postings whether intentional or not. It blows my mind routinely.

    But you did well, finding the authentic goods as always.

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    1. They don't, do they? Who'dIt just waers you do getting mad about it.
      I must have a look at that IG account, it sounds fab. x

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  19. Ye Gawds, Vix - that Anokhi top is the best yet - what an absolute beauty.


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    1. I'm amazed somebody didn't nip in and buy it before the seller accespted my cheeky offer! I'm so glad it's mine! xxx

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  20. I second that, Elaine. It is just amazing.

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    1. Thank you! I can't wait to wear it! xxx

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  21. I could do with your latest sign: it's true that there's no polite way of telling dog owners to clean up after their dogs! Your next sign could be one for men to stop harassing and making kissing noises to women! Cavemen!
    I do hope Jon will be issued with a new grab stick, you are both doing such great jobs!
    Your new Anokhi purchase is absolutely stunning, and I've taken due note of your sash making tutorial! xxx

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    1. No to Neanderthals! That could be good banner!
      The dog poo thing seems to have got worse during lockdown, fellow walkers have even started warning us where there's a fresh dump so we won't walk in it!
      Jon's mended the grab stick - phew!
      I'm looking forward to giving that blouse an outing, it's a bit too posh for litter picking! xxx

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  22. I was the same- never watched Gardener's world- now I like to catch it occasionally (don't always remember and our terrestial TV just won't work, we have to do everything on Catchup which means we forget about things!
    Love your new Anokhi blouse- it looks so pretty!
    I love that you are in the bin possee!
    I gave the bin men a £20 tip this Christmas cos I was actually at home and awake in time to catch them for the first time ever and they have been cheery since then towards me- not that I see them very often but they've continued all through all the lockdowns- which I know is
    n't the case for everyone- but I rarely got to see them before that.
    The sash is a great idea!
    Hope Jon gets a new bin stick.
    x

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    1. That's lovely that you tipped the binmen, they often get forgotten about when people talk about frontline workers but what would we do without them? A few people have started buying big bags of sweets and taping them to the top of the bins on collection day which always gets the thumbs up!
      Gardener's World is such a lovely watch. They did start repeating it on a Sunday morning which seemed like a better time, if I'm watching with a rum I tend to forget my jobs for the week! xxx

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  23. Sounds like productive day.
    Coffee is on and stay safe

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  24. Vix, you are a vision in your outfit and Liz's coat. I love the purple van too!😍😍
    Why men think it is okay to harass women is ridiculous. Especially now with the uproar in the UK and globally over what happened to Sarah Everard. Poor thing, so sad to think about. X

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    1. Thanks so much, Jess!
      If men think behaviour like that impresses women I imagine they might be single for a very long time. xxx

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  25. Hi again Vix, I love your latest Anokhi acquisition, such beautiful colours and patterns juxtaposed. I did find it amazing though that the seller pointed out its " issues" i.e. that 2 buttons were missing even though 3 spares were still available! I thought you were going to say that there were holes or tears in it, fading etc. As you say, a few minutes work with the needle and it is perfect again. I love hearing about you and Jon litter-picking being an old Womble fan myself, carry on the good work.

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    1. Hello Alysia! I was thrilled with that blouse. I can only assume that the seller must have thought that sewing on a button was a complicated process hence the generous discount!
      Wombles rule! xxx

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  26. Most of the time I don't have any trouble with men hassling me. It used to be much worse when I worked at the training centre and several took a bit comic exchange [I'm no flirt] and decided to overstep the mark very quickly. My boss had to tick off a few of the chaps off and remind them of boundaries and appropriate behaviour over the years. It's not such a problem in Horsham, but I have had to be a bit fierce with a couple of drunken chaps who've approached me when I've been out in my dancing stuff. On one occasion my husband was standing right behind me! Arilx

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    1. Oh yes, my years of working with male chefs and their idea of banter used to drive me daft. I went for an interview once, walked around the kitchen, turned round quickly and they were all holding up scores on my appearance (it was top marks but highly embarrasing!) xxx

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  27. well done to attach that braid to the hmong dress... and finding this beauty of a anokhi blouse!
    the checked coat looks so gorgeous with indian dresses - just perfect.
    need this "dog" sign - very often some extremely brainless individuals pick up their dogs poo in the plastic sacks - but then throw the whole stuff into the greenery where the plastic is staying for ages.......
    stay safe! xxxx

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    1. Thanks, Beate! It fits just that bit better now!
      That checked cost seems to go with all my stuff, I'm so grateful to Liz for her decluttering.
      Much as I hate dog poo left on the pavements at least it will wash away, stick it in plastic and it'll hang there forever! xxx

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  28. I can't bear dog poo 'fruit' hanging from trees in bags, I get mad about selfish owners too. Def seen some fox poo too though and cat poo. I'm becoming a poo identifier!! Love the banners.
    The purple van looks very groovilicious, I hope Gilbert's ok.
    We're stuck into Deutschland 89 at the moment and loving it. xxx

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    1. Fruit! That made me laugh. People that dim really ought not to be in charge of a dog.
      It's very rare for a cat not to cover up their poo, it's usually foxes in our garden and that is one unholy stink if you accidentally tread in that!
      Isn't Deutschland 89 wonderful? Sabine the terrorist's wardrobe is sublime - Afghan dresses, a Phool jacket and loads of amazing kaftans! xxx

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  29. Rum! A good way to end a day and a post.

    All the protests and talk of late and some men still can't do anything but be arses :-( FFS.

    Ten Years Younger is still going?! I shouldn't watch it even if it is, I've spent half of lockdown thinking of plastic surgery...

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  30. I was trying to explain the ongoing harassment of women to L - he's a white dude so he doesn't see it, so he thinks it doesn't happen here. Sigh. I'm glad Jon was with you, Vix! I love your sign (the grammar nerd is happy that you've done the correct possessive!).

    I love your new Anokhi blouse - and glad that the "issues" were an easy fix. Sewing on tape to make a dress fit more flattering is such a great idea.

    I adore "makeover" shows, but I wish they'd stop putting women in plastic. Stop promoting fast fashion!

    That big cat boy looks hungry! He better leave Stephen and Frank alone!

    I was surprised that you have more than one VW van! It's not just Gilbert! We owned a white VW Combi in 1975 to about 1983 - I love it. Its name was Sweetums. :)

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  31. OHMYGOSH I love the British Flag jacket you were listing in your eBAY. I know you don't ship to Canada so I didn't even bother to look, and it probably sold right away anyway. Your new blouse is beautiful - what a splendid pattern mix. It sucks that you can't even pick up trash in the neighbourhood, doing a good deed, without some a**hole harassing you.

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  32. I always enjoy seeing how varied your days are :) and now you're part of the bin gang!!
    Oh, why can't men just keep themselves to themselves? I have to admit I don't get a lot of bother, when I was going to pubs and clubs every weekend it was unusual not to get harassed at least once per outing. We shouldn't ever feel scared to walk alone.
    I'm was thinking only yesterday about adding some tape to cinch in the waist of a jumpsuit, I'll be doing mine by hand too. I like to feel the cloth, but also, my machine needs a service as the tension is screwy. In fact I've got a lot of sewing planned for the weekend - gone are my pubbing and clubbing days (with or without Covid restrictions) haha!
    xx

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