Saturday 2 January 2021

The Distancing Diaries - 1st & 2nd January, 2021

 Happy New Year to one and all! 

The bargain £1 William Morris 2021 calendar is now out of the cellophane wrapper & in use (sadly no dates scribbled on it yet!) and I'm delighted to see that January's featured print, Pimpernel, matches the blouse I bought from the same chazza three weeks previously.

On Friday morning Jon was up first, bringing mugs of tea back to bed where we read, and the lads lounged, until just gone 9am. I'd left the upstairs plants soaking in the bath overnight so sorted them out before going downstairs and having a sausage sandwich for breakfast (I know, that's our usual Saturday breakfast but Jon got the day mixed up).

After putting away the previous day's laundry I braved the garden to take some stock photos whilst Jon continued with the number crunching. It was colder than ever, even with my fingerless mitts my fingers were so numb I had trouble operating the camera. 


Being the crazy woman that I am, I risked hypothermia by taking my coat off to show you the waistcoat Liz & Al bought me for Xmas. I'm not completely daft though, there's a bodysuit, thermal leggings, an underskirt and woolly wellie socks under this Indian gauze dress!

FRIDAY: Vintage Indian gauze dress (eBay, 2018), Mum's Biba boots, 1970s sheepskin hat (charity shop), Vintage block printed waistcoat (Xmas present)

I spent a couple of hours measuring, writing listings and uploading my photos to eBay then sat in the lounge and started on the crochet I'd been intending to get around to all week whilst watching the New Year's Eve edition of The Great British Sewing Bee on the i-player, and although it was another celebrity special, the participants were more competent and the winner was brilliant. I turned the TV off and finished my crochet, another hat - this time in a mustard coloured Aran yarn.

How many hats does a person need? Jon asked me earlier. With the prospect of the remaining winter months at home with only a daily walk around the block to keep us sane...a lot! 

For tea we used one of the spice kits Tony had bought us for Xmas and made a Malaysian Rendang curry with turmeric rice. The recipe had suggested tofu as an alternative to beef for non-meat eaters but we used paneer as we had half a packet open in the fridge. Not the most beautiful looking dish but wonderfully spicy and just the job on such an icy day.

We settled down in front of the TV with wine (white Zinfandel for me, Rioja for Jon) and started rewatching Any Human Heart, the 2010 TV series based on William Boyd's masterpiece and in both of our top five list of the best books we've ever read. 


A sign of an outstanding book is one we read and keep on the bookshelf rather than passing it on or handing it back to the chazza from whence it came.

I was up first on Saturday, made tea and promptly tripped up the stairs whilst carrying it back up to bed, waking Jon up with a litany of expletives. I'd only spilt a bit but managed to create one hell of a mess. After mopping it up I went back to bed and read until 8.15. Jon got up to see to the lads and I stripped and changed the bed, loaded the washing machine & we had fruit and yogurt for breakfast. 


Jon headed off in search of grocery supplies whilst I wrapped the latest eBay sales. Once he was back we went for a walk and, although it hadn't been forecast, it was snowing yet again. There's a small gated park around the corner which is usually locked but it was open this morning so we had a wander about. Usually pretty quiet, it was a busy day at the Covid testing centre with a queue of cars waiting.

I bet you didn't know Walsall was home to British Judo. Full of surprises, that's our town. And talking of surprises, despite it being there since 1999, Jon and I had never noticed this Millennium Marker before, engraved with these words by Belfast artist David Dudgeon,

Down a wandering path
I have travelled,
Where the setting sun
Lies upon the ground.
The tracks are hard and dry
Smothered with
The weather’s wear,
My mind did move
With them that had
Before me seen,
Trodding down the ground
A track for me to follow,
Leaving marks for others
A sign for them to follow.


We regularly pass this masterpiece of hedge trimming, although the man with his shears is a recent addition.


Back at home we had a bowl of noodles. I left Jon to the accounts whilst I cleaned the spare bedroom.






Inspired by a similar Banjara blouse I'd seen in Sarah Jane Adam's book, Life in a Box, (courtesy of dear friends, Lynn & Philip) I thought I'd dress my mannequin in one of mine.


  In the 1980s I used to stand and stare wistfully at a trio of ceramic flying puffins in a cool interiors shop in Birmingham city centre but I was a penniless student and couldn't afford the hefty price tag. In 2018, more than thirty years later I found an identical set in a charity shop for £1.99 . After taking this photo I realised that the middle one was wonky, went to straighten it, knocked it on the floor and smashed it to smithereens. I'm such a clumsy oaf! 




I'm wearing my Shubette of London, 1960s mythical beast maxi, bought from another trader at a vintage fair in Walthamstow back in 2018. I've worn it to markets & fairs (that was us trading at London's hip'n'happening Brick Lane), for pub all-dayers and even last year's birthday night out with friends. Now all those activities are off-limits it's worn with wellies & woollies for walks around the block.


I had a rummage through my wardrobe and packed away a few more things, including my gold crochet wedding dress, a floor length psychedelic velvet waistcoat, a peacock blue opera coat and a marabou feather trimmed cape. Much as I love wearing my fabulous clothes every day, some of them just don't lend themselves to stout walking boots and a stay-at-home lifestyle.


Tea was the rest of the Rendang curry sauce and turmeric rice, this time Jon had chicken and I had rosecoco beans. 

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Tonight we'll be drinking rum, checking on the snow (which is still falling) and counting down to 9pm when the new series of Spiral starts. 

Cheers, stay safe & see you soon! 


PS Apologies for not replying to your comments on my last post yet, normal service will be resumed shortly,

51 comments:

  1. Loved this entry as always, Vix, especially the quote by David Dudgeon. It's this type of thing that I always tell grieving people, especially those trying to weather through a particularly painful event in their lives. I tell them to look to those who have traveled before them, on the same path. They've left footprints on how to navigate the road set about before them. This poem says the same thing only MUCH more eloquently than I ever could. ~Andrea xoxo

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    1. Thanks so much, Andrea. I was really touched by David Dudgeon's words and hoped anyone who might be going through a bad time might find them of use. xxx

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  2. I love your hair in the trader pboto! Retro look goes with the dress. I too have books I can't part with. I hope soon we all can have our days in pubs with friends. I'll settle for an hour.

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    1. Thanks, Sam! It feels like an eternity since I've worn my hair in an elaborate updo! xxx

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  3. Thanks for the title (Any Human Heart). I just put a hold on in at out library....).

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    1. It's a wonderful read. William Boyd is a fantastic writer, my dad also loved him. x

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  4. It's snowing here too and actually lying! I had a busy day taking down wreaths and garlands and then hoovering up the needles - that's a gift that will keep on giving! As ever, I love travelling round Walsall with you. That's a beautiful poem by David Dudgeon. Isn't it exciting to find something new in familiar surroundings? Walsall still has secrets to share. I haven't had my nose out the door in 2021!

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    1. Yay! You've finally got snow. I've been finding holly leaves and berries all over the lounge, too - just when you think they're all up another appears.
      I loved that poem and can't believe I walked past that millennium on my way to work for four years!
      Have you been out for a play in the snow? Jon keeps texting Tony now he's back on furlough checking that he's left the house! xxx

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    2. Not enough snow for a play. I just feasted my eyes!!!

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  5. Happy New Year Vix and Jon. With a bit of luck you might get some summer trading this year.

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    1. Thanks, Cherie! I do hope so! It's too late for festivals but maybe a fair or two! xxx

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  6. I do like that sailor-looking kaftan!
    Happy New year.
    Your rendang looks yummy- I do like the taste of it! The new waistcoat is excellent- great choice from Liz!
    I have WAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAY too many hats so you are in good company! My mum gave me yet another one for Christmas- it's very nice. I've tried to wear different ones every day this week when we have gone out.
    What a shame about the puffin- I remember seeing a set of flying daleks like that when I was a teen and wanting them!
    That Delves Road topiary is brilliant! I saw a lovely carved blackbird on our walk yesterday which I took a pic of!

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    1. Nautical but nice! I must admit that it did sneak into my wardrobe for a while, it was the Swedish label that I liked!
      I can't remember having rendang when I was in Malaysia but it is lovely, I do like a coconut milk curry.
      Your mum knows you so well, we do need a hat for every day of the week.
      Liking the sound of the blackbird, hope we see it on the blog! xxx

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  7. Ooh, love that William Morris print! I adore your gauzy dress outfit - what a lovely waistcoat that is! I've made note of the William Boyd book, as I'm always on the lookout for them for Book Club. Thanks!

    That hedgework is awesome! I love the man.

    That sucks about your puffin (I'm clumsy too), sorry to hear that. At least you still have the picture! Your Shubette dress is fabulous - I'm sure I say that whenever you wear it, but it's one of my favourites.

    I have also put away some of my party-gear. Not this season...but maybe next year!

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    1. I think that might be my favourite William Morris print, although it's a touch choice!
      William Boyd is such a good writer, Restless is another brilliant book, a really strong female lead.
      I hate being clumsy, it's the bane of my life although I think Jon is possibly even more so than me. It's amazing there's a glass or a cup in the house. xxx

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  8. Happy new year to you and Jon!

    Seems you're having a very chilly start to 2021.

    I love your 1970s sheepskin hat, so gorgeous and warm. And your crocheted hats are fantastic too. Vix, I reckon you should sell them when you get back to vintage fairs. X

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    1. Happy New year to you and yours, dear Jess!
      Thanks very much for your kind words, I'm not sure I'd get as much pleasure out of crochet if I was under pressure to make stuff to sell! xxx

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  9. HAPPY NEW YEAR! I got up at 7am and it's now 11pm and it's been raining ALL day. Sometime heavy, some times light. Wonderful way to start 2021. It least it doesn't snow here.

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    1. Happy New Year! Be gone, rain! It's too cold for snow right now, we've got vile icy rain instead...brrrr! xxx

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  10. Happy New Year Vix.
    How on earth can Jon sit in a kitchen in a tshirt in this weather? Even with the heating on I am wearing jumpers AND I am menopausal! I think I need to read more about Wim Hoff. I am so nesh for a northerner.
    I love the way your blouse matches the William Morris print and your curries look delicious.
    I am still eating the stilton and mince pies!
    Is Spiral worth watching? I read an article in the weekend papers and was thinking about starting with the first series as I have never watched it.

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    1. Jon is always complaining about being cold and I keep telling him to wear a jumper and stop moaning! Honestly, it must be like having kids!
      Spiral is absolutely fantastic, really gritty, superb acting and believable and flawed characters. The BBC have the entire set on the I-player - you will love it. xxx

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  11. Loving your waistcoat, you have some very generous friends :) Are you watching The Serpent? you can get the whole series on BBC Iplayer - it's fantastic and the 70s clothes are authentic, loving the hippy outfits - has inspired us to now want to travel to Katmandu 2022 lol! Isn't it surprising what you find in your own neck of the woods that you have walked past for years without noticing! we are walking to the village next to our town as despite living here for 27 years I only usually drive through it - an 8 mile round walk which will do us both good :)

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    1. Thanks, Betty! Liz said she found the waistcaot on ebay, it must have snuck under my radar as I never spotted it!
      Funnily enough I saw The Serpent advertised on TV last night, I shall give that a go tomorrow night, it looks just up my street!
      An 8 mile walk! That's impressive. I'm looking forward to seeing some photos. xxx

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  12. cosy impressions from your wonderful home!!
    and chic dresses, coats and hats - of cause one needs more then one - in different colours to match. and yummy curries - spicey food is the best when the weather gets cold. we have a bit of wet snow this morning - already tawing.......
    does the brexit affect your business??
    stay warm and safe - dear vix! xxxxx

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    1. Thanks, Beate.
      Variety is the spice of life, clothe, hats, food and scenery!
      Our snow has all but gone now but it's almost unbearable cold, I can't remember it being this bad for ages.
      Brexit will affect festivals when they are allowed to go ahead as the European musicians will need visas & work permits, which will be an absolute disaster. With eBay I only post in the UK but subscribe to an international shipping programme so a third party deals with export forms and shipping abroad - it would be far too complicated to do it myself! xxx

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  13. Saw William Boyd at the Edinburgh Book Festival a couple of years ago. He's very charismatic and charming. Whenever I see those 'Covid Testing' boards, I think I'm living in a horror movie! I loved Spiral. It's going to be a corker! Have a good week.xxx

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    1. You lucky thing! Judging by his wonderful writing I'm not at all surprised that William Boyd is as charming as his books.
      I do feel like I've wandered into some dystopian nightmare with the discarded masks and those yellow signs. When will it ever end?
      Spiral didn't disappoint, did it? xxx

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  14. appy New Year! Cannot wait for Spiral, although I could have sworn the last season was billed as the final one... mind you, I think seasons 4 and 5 were also so... I have a major crush on Thiery Godard- there's just something about heavily built Frenchmen, they look like they know how to enjoy the sensual pleasures life has to offer. I remember being entranced by The Blue Afternoon back in the 90s and reading several Boyd novels on the trot. None quite lived up to the perfect balance of tension, tenderness and architectural quirkiness of that first read, but then I often find that I remember my first encounter with an author most vividly and most fondly. I must have a crack at some of his later works as somehow he slipped off my regular reading schedule.
    Here's to a bright and colourful 2021.

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    1. Happy New Year!!
      Have you seen that the Beeb have put the entire new series of Spiral on the i-player? we were naughty and watched episode 3 last night. I'll let you keep Thiery Godard, although he looks well from his time in prison, I'm more of a Bruno Debrandt fan, there's something about his rumpled elegance and kindly manner.
      I've got William Boy's Love is Blind sitting on the donation pile, it's a cracking read and I'd be more than happy to send it your way if you want it (goanmad at hotmail dot com if you do).
      xxx

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  15. Happy new year to you both ,,, it’s snowing here it snows most years in Tokyo . The kids are playing outside with some of their friends trying to catch the falling snow in their hands, junko their youngest looked like he was trying to eat earlier.
    It looks like a national lockdown is on its way, but I honestly don’t mind now. I am enjoying this Slow pace of life. I am safe, happy, warm and I have my own family to care for. I have plenty of loo rolls lol. Because we had it way worse than you guys last time. We couldn’t get a single one for weeks! So I am prepared this time,
    Try smoked tofu it’s delicious. Kids are back to school and kindergarten tomorrow, thank god. No they are both great, and I do miss them. I am going to try my best and cut down on clothing items, you know the saying all dressed up and no where to go. I have already sold a load of my shoes and boots to expats. So I think I might sell some of that bulging wardrobe of mine. Keep safe you too and I pray for that R rate to go down!!

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    1. Happy New Year back to you all!
      The Midlands doesn't get as much snow as a lot of the country so it's a bit of a novelty. I normally hate it but that's when I have places to dress up for and don't want to go to the pub in wellies - those were the days, eh?
      I can't believe that the Brits weren't the only idiots stockpiling loo rolls!
      I wish Bojo would just lock us down here as well, it's utter madness that if people want Primarni or to get their hair done they can just drive to an area in a different tier.
      I really like tofu but I hate smokey flavours - I loathe BBQs for the same reason. I think it must be as I've never eaten meat and it's a flavour that's alien to me.
      Enjoy your grown-up time without the kids, you deserve it! Isn't it a good feeling to go through your clothes and have no guilt about weeding stuff out and selling it on? that's the joy of only buying secondhand stuff, it didn't cost much in the first place!
      Loads of love & stay safe! xxx

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  16. Yay Spiral,it was a nice surprise when I switched on the telly and it was on. My back's gone so it's good to find stuff worth watching.
    It's a shame about the smashed puffin and tripping up the stairs with tea is a bugger, I've done that on countless occasions and open tread stairs means the mess goes further!
    Your dress does look like it would be chilly in the freezing weather, those layers sound toasty though, the waistcoat is a lovely gift.
    Happy New Year to you and Jon. xxx

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    1. Happy New Year to the Sally household! I'm so sorry to hear about your back. I don't think this horrible cold helps with the aches and pains, you can never relax properly when you're trying to stay warm.
      Spiral was brillaint. they've got the whole series of the new series on the I-player and I'm very tempted to binge watch all of it but I know I'll be bereft when it's all over! xxx

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  17. Happy third day of the year Vix! that is a lovely waistcoat and I think even with the layers you were brave. Love the poem and that hedge is amazing. We are so fortunate where we live just come back from walking around our own yard poking around some outbuildings. Amy is doing fine and not so shy. The sheep looked so white against the dull skies. I loved the shot of Jon at the table (tell him I can relate paperwork ugh!!) but what a lovely kitchen to do it in. That is a fab dress and I hope you will get to pull an all dayer in it again (but do you miss it?) It was fun looking at the shots of the spare room thinking yep that was a lockdown project you sure were and continue to be productive. Must check out that book. Shazxx

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    1. Happy 4th day of 2021 to you, Shaz! Doesn't time fly? I'm seeing a slight difference in the sunrise and sunset now, it's staying lighter a tad longer, despite the cold weather spring is on its way!
      I'm glad to hear Amy news, it's wonderful that she's doing so well and isn't quite so shy.
      I'm sure I'll embrace the pub with open arms when the time comes and it's safe to go back but at the moment I'm still enjoying our new way of life. I hope you are, too! xxx

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  18. I would have loved that hedge too! Arilx

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  19. I'm swooning over your William Morris calendar for 2021, and how wonderful that January's print matches your blouse! I'm not surprised about Jon having the day mixed up. Both Jos and I lost track of the days several times this past week.
    The things we girls do for blogging, risking hypothermia and such, but how else can we show each other our outfits to their best advantage? Liz's waistcoat is even more gorgeous in daylight. Love your growing collection of hats, which of course you need in all possible colour variations :-)
    That hedge is magnificent, but oh no, that poor puffin! Glad I'm not the only clumsy oaf though, we should start a society :-) xxx

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    1. I can't believe that calendar was £1 - I'd have been happy to pay the full retail price. People of Walsall obviously don't appreciate William Morris, more fool them!
      It actually feels like a Monday today, the TV news is back to normal. The last fortnight has been really hard to keep track of the day of the week.
      Another clumsy oaf! That makes me feel better! xxx

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  20. I love that hedge!

    Your new waistcoat looks fab on you and I do so adore the mythical beasts dress - what a totally amazing pattern. The Banjara blouse on the mannequin looks lovely.

    I'm so sorry about your penguin; I'm guessing it was beyond repair? Maybe you'll come across another set one day soon. It's like me spilling mayonnaise on my brand new boots...

    I so enjoyed Spiral. I'm sorry it's the last series. I think 'The Killing, 'The Bridge' and 'Spiral' are my all time favourite foreign crime dramas. We are also enjoying 'Before We Die' at the moment; quite gripping!

    Happy New Year, Vix and Jon!
    xxx

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    1. Happy New Year, Vronni!
      Isn't that hedge a joy? I think the National Trust need to offer the householder a job!
      Isn't that mythical beast print wonderful? I was drawn to the colours when i saw it on the rail and was amazed when I saw the creatures!
      Spiral is wonderful and I agree about the Killing and The Bridge although Before We Die was fabulous, too! xxx

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  21. Hi Vix, what a freezer and Ive only been as far as the bins. Been watching The Serpent and really loved it, the clothes, the attitudes, everything about it. Forgot to say on your last post I too like a cityscape and Brum has a very good one, I used to go on a bus route where at one point the whole city was spread before me, then the powers that be changed the route. I once went to the top of Five ways Tower the view over the city was great could see out as far as the airport. I also love brutalist architecture never saw anything wrong with the city library and spaghetti junction is great. When I was young I told a friend how I liked bridges, trains and engineering, she said your mad, girls can't like things like that, she didn't stay a friend for long. I'm not bothered about being in tier four, l will just be a doormouse. How sad about the smashed puffin, Im so clumsy Ive gives up worrying about the things I break can always look for some more in the charity shops! Keep yourself well wrapped up as my Brummie mom would say! Love, Brummie Sue Xx.

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    1. Hello, Sue! Ay it cold?
      I'm going to have to watch The serpent. I saw it advertised on the BBC the other night and I've checked the online reviews, if you, Betty and The Guardian like it then it's good enough for me.
      I had a feeling you'd love a cityscape, too. I loved the old Brutalist architecture, too. Even the multi story car park at West Brom put a smile on my face, I was delighted to hear that they'd listed it so it couldn't go the way of Birmingham Library.
      I shall seek a replacement puffin when the chazzas reopen - might be a while though, I reckon our illustrious leader will be announcing a lockdown when he addresses the nation later. I'm with you though, I have books, plenty of firewood, good company and a roof over my head - better than many! Stay sane! xxx

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  22. How cute is that matching blouse and calendar shot. Your new waistcoat is lovely, such a great gift. Wonderful dress and boots you wore with it. You look stunning in that 1960s dress as well. Wallsal being home to British judo is news to me. Isn't it amazing how no matter where we live, we can always find out new things about that place? There is always something to discover if we keep our eyes open. Any Human Heart sounds like a great read, I'll have to look it up.

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    1. Thanks, Ivana! I love how the two items match. I'll have to go through the house each month looking for things to match the calendar! Any Human Heart is a wonderful read, William Boyd researches his subjects so well, the book has loads of interesting snippets about 20th century history, too. xxx

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  23. You wouldn’t know you had so many layers beneath that Indian gauze dress!
    I know I’ve read a good book when I can’t bring myself to let it go. I don’t have many that remain to be read again so if it stays it’s a good one!
    I’m sorry to hear about your puffin, what a shame.
    xx

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    1. It's ridiculous how many layers I wear, I must look a stone heavier than I am! xxx

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  24. If you have to write on your calendrer try not to put too much pressure on the paper, then you will be able to use the pages for a magnificent William Morris patchwork 'something or other' at the end of the year. I would most likely line the back of a bookcase with it or some drawers that wouldn't be holding much so that I could still see it. What a bargain for a pound, I am still jealous!!

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  25. As a huge fan of William Morris, this amazing matchiness makes me happy!, having this same print in your blouse and discovering it when opening your new calendar is such a happy find!.
    Thanks for braving the elements to show us this stunning waistcoat and its fabulousness over your beautiful dress!.
    Sorry for the puffin. Hope you find another one as soon as charities are open!.
    Love the mirrored blouse, totally fab!.
    And The Mythical Beast Maxi is such a gorgeous dress, and You Rock It!.
    (Glad to hear that Jon enjoy some Rioja wine, mwhaha)
    besos

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  26. So sorry about the Puffin - they are wonderful! The Mythical Beast maxi looks great with your newly created hat.

    I have a couple of shelves full of books that for the most part, I've read at least once, but I can't bear to part with as they are either part of a collection by a beloved author, or the book was so meaningful to me I know I will read it again. I am getting better at passing on books once I've read them though.

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Lots of love, Vix