Friday, 5 June 2026

Hip and Happening!



You can tell that the weather's taken a turn, I'm posting twice in a week!


First things first, shortly after posting my last blog, I had a phone call from my GP as he'd finally got the results of my pelvic x-ray. As suspected my right hip is well and truly knackered and I've being referred back to the orthopaedic department at the hospital to undergo a total hip replacement. On the bright side my prosthetic left hip is perfectly fine despite being over 20 years old. 


Tuesday isn't a swimming day so, as usual, I spent half an hour on my Wii Fit doing a mix of yoga and muscle-building exercises. As I have no strength in my hip, there's a few exercises I can't do but plenty that I can. The last thing I'm going to do is allow myself to be defeated and sit on my arse all day. 


The highlight of my day was getting my nails done and, for the first time in my life I went for a French manicure but with neon tips. The photos don't do Charlotte at True Beauty's work justice, I can't stop looking at them! 


It was a day of wildly changeable weather, a morning of grey skies and torrential rain & an afternoon hot enough to sit in the garden in a bikini. I wore this All About Audrey dress to the salon, bought from Vinted with the tags still attached. 

Jon had a dental appointment first thing on Wednesday morning so we swapped our early swim for the lunchtime session which was crazy busy, at one point there were 14 of us! 

As it wasn't particularly warm I gave the groovy 1970s cat jumper I bought from a charity shop last week an outing. 





Later on, we continued to watch For All Mankind but a comment my lovely friend Kezzie left reminded me that I hadn't mentioned Two Weeks In August, currently being aired on BBC1. A drama about a group of friends who meet at university and now, in their 40s, hire a Greek villa for a fortnight. I was expecting this to be a bit wishy-washy and fluffy but it was a excellent watch, quite dark with a marvellous blend of hedonism, beautiful scenery and Greek mythology. Two Weeks was actually filmed in Malta and Gozo but it looked very much like Greece. Well worth watching. 


Thursday started with another Wii Fit session. William, as usual, decided he needed to join in, standing on the balance board and headbutting me while I did my press-ups and side stands, rubbing around my ankles during the Downward Facing Dog and climbing on my back when I did the Plank. 


With the shorter, face-framing layers my hair is pretty wavy. This is what it looks like after I've washed it and left it to dry naturally. 


It was another day of mixed weather but I'm in Summer mode now so it's bare arms all the way. I wore this 1970s Imported Classics block-printed Indian cotton maxi with my trusty vintage denim waistcoat and one of my many Indian silk screen printed scarves I've bought from charity shops over the years. It was quite sunny when Jon & I went for a walk around the block later, hence the sunglasses! 



I spent the afternoon sorting out the clothes I'm taking away to Greece with me whilst Jon rung the insurance company to get my hip included on our travel policy, an additional charge of £26 - a small price to pay for peace of mind! 


I started reading my 40th book of the year, My Husband by Maud Ventura, translated from French, the original language of publication. The book caused a sensation in France and it tells the tale of a besotted wife who demands devotion from her husband. It has been compared to both Gone Girl and to Patricia Highsmith's work, that's good enough for me.   


Friday (today) started with an early morning swim followed by breakfast in 'Spoons and a mooch around the charity shops. I wore this 1970s David Silverman pinafore with one of my All About Audrey recycled sari wrap tops (via Vinted).


Talking of charity shops, I was excited to find a tube of Philip Kingsley's Swimcap for £1 - it retails at £26. 


As an adult I've never worn clothes in bed so when I went into hopsital for my first hip replacment I had the added stress of having to rush out and buy nighties the day before. This time I'm going to be more prepared so I snaffled this £3 Zara nightie, with the £27.99 price tags still attached, and have already packed it away with the charity shopped dressing gown I bought the other day. 


From the same charity shop I also bought this Deco-inspired ceramic plant pot for £3. 


When I bought the Umbrella plant in the photo below it was the size of the one on the windowsill (this was grown from a cutting we'd taken from it), now look at it! I've run out of moss poles to support it....


If you cast your minds back to Lockdown you may remember us planting a wildflower meadow on the rubble-strewn patch of land outside our gates. Isn't it pretty?  



We're starting on season 2 of For All Mankind later. Who'd have thought I'd ever be interested in a drama about space travel, certainly not me! Season 1 got me hooked and reeled me in and its not just rockets and Russians, there's sexism, prejudice and dodgy politics not to mention gorgeous late 60s/early 70s fashion and a groovy soundtrack. 


Have a fabulous weekend, see you soon! 

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  1. Hi Vix, I just binge watched Two Weeks in August, first 4 episodes good, then it dragged out a bit but what lovely scenery and I had no idea it was filmed in Malta! I googled your nail salon - wow what a difference in prices across the UK - ours charges £45 for a biab refill! Your hair is looking very pretty and wavy suits you. Im glad to hear you will be getting your hip replacement, you will be able to get back to some intense globetrotting! Betty x

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    1. Hey Betty! I'd never have guessed it was Malta and Gozo if I hadn't read about it first, they did a brilliant job. I didn't think I'd enjoy it s much as I did, the mythology made it for me!
      £45?! Life's a lot cheaper in the Midlands! True Beauty even has a loyalty card scheme and we get 15% off every five treatments, it certainly inspires loyalty!
      I keep telling myself that this time next year I'll be normal again (or as normal as I've ever been!) xxx

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  2. I just wrote a giant comment and lost it - BOOOOOO :(
    I will rewrite it tomorrow but I have to send this link which I am SO VERY EXCITED ABOUT!
    https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=xuggTtSpnyI

    Elaine Anon

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    1. Back again! I’m glad you have your results and hope you get everything sorted asap, Vix - you will be the model patient given your fitness regime and positive attitude. A couple of my neighbours have had new hips and were impressed with both the result and the hospital experience. It is fantastic that your first replacement is in such good condition too.

      As to nighties - the NHS ones are like gold dust lol The nurses used to grab them like they were contraband when they appeared in clean laundry deliveries when I was in last year lol - not at all glam but that was the last thing on my mind! You might consider some slipper socks (the socks with the non-slip dots on the sole) - they are comfy and great for moving about safely without faffing about with footwear.

      It was nice to hear that William has now become your personal trainer lol.

      Your wild flowers look fabulous - we have let our verge down the side of the house go mad - like yours it is full of cow parsley, Welsh poppies, ox eye daisies, buttercups, campion and willow herb. All we need to do is whip out any sycamore seedlings and keep an eye on elder. We’ve got two enormous ferns - one on either side of our front step - honestly, everything has just appeared due to lack of weeding lol.

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    2. Eeeek! I'm desperate to see Madfabulous, I remember the National Trust doing a piece on Henry, 5th Marquess of Anglesey in their magazine a few years ago and I love Rupert Everett! We've just back from seeing Savage House and its absolutely brilliant - its Withnail and I with wigs!
      I only got a hospital nightie the day I went into the theatre and it was much preferable to the last minute horrors I had to buy! Slipper socks were a no-no last time, a total replacement means no bending for 6 - 12 weeks so I had to add the indignity of old lady closed in slippers to my vile grey jersey mightdresses (no wonder I hated being in hospital so much!)
      O am so lucky having William (aka The ten Pound Tom) as a personal trainer, he keeps sitting on the Wii Fit board causing it to shout "Your weigt's really changed" halfway through an exercise!
      Its been a couple of yeras since we did any weeding and its so exciting to see what's appeared. I'm fighting a daily battle with ground elder, bamboo and bindweed at the mo! xxx

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  3. Love the nails! Are they gel or shellac (like I'd know the difference, lol).

    I'm surprized that you have to bring your own nightie to hospital. We always provided them. Easier for us to do the laundry for accidents, leaks and spills. Also better for IV lines. Not too attractive but functional.

    Enjoy Greece.

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    1. I'm counting the days till I can escape this rain!!
      I think gel and Shellac are pretty similar but Shellac doesn't last as long. They're both a type of polish that dries under UV Lights. Before I started having them I thought they were false nails but they're your own and because of how hard the gel dries breakage is non-existent so my nails have to be filed down every time I visit the salon or I'd have talons!
      I had a hospital nightie when I went in for surgery but the rest of my stay (I was in for a week due to a few complications) it was my own nighties. xxx

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  4. I hope your other Hip Replacement Surgery goes as well as the 20 Year Old one did and has held up so well. You have fabulous Hair, it always looks so healthy and grows so fast. The Cat Jumper with Skirt is my fav you Modeled in this Post.

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    1. Thnaks so much, Dawn! My heart skipped a beat when I spotted that cat jumper! xxx

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  5. Hi Vix. Pleased you've finally got a diagnosis and hopefully not long now til you are sorted and not in pain. The nails look fab. Can remember you planting the beautiful wildlife garden. We are back with all of our lovely Greek friends in the beautiful Kos Town. Louise (Mids) x x x

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    1. Hello Louise! I hope you are having an absolutely brilliant time in beautiful Kos Town, I'm counting the days till we're drinking Mythos in the sunshine with the Aegean lapping around our toes! xxx

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    2. Back home now, Vix. Rain!!! 😧 Had the warmest of welcomes and the best time with the most hospitable people. Missing it already. Have a fantastic holiday and a mythos for us! Yamasssssssss!!!! X x

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  6. A thing about NHS waiting lists.

    https://www.orthopaedicinnovation.co.uk/how-to-get-ahead-of-the-nhs-waiting-list-for-hip-replacement-surgery/?gad_source=1&gad_campaignid=22798914128&gbraid=0AAAAA-2i2vKhumhodY8G7HsZl1Aiys7ga&gclid=Cj0KCQjw54nRBhDCARIsAMcY_SAavNvw9rBbt1IOO-Ek8sEDLEVH2AKxrJFgrv1JbQj8-uTRD-ZZQ2EaAsWhEALw_wcB

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  7. Hi, I just posted that link, well worth having a look, can never have too much information. My friend’s friend used a similar site and had hers done in 12 weeks. Had to travel from Chichester to Epsom but it was worth it.

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    1. That's brilliant information and so very kind of you to share it!
      I hope your friend's recovering well. xxx

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  8. Your wildflower patch is gorgeous! You'll be getting a new hip for your birthday 🙂 Maeve xx

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    1. Thank you, Maeve! That'd be a 60th birthday present to be remembered! xxx

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  9. Are you aware of Mr Shakir Hussain at the Royal Orthopaedic Hospital, Birmingham? He was trained by Mr Ronan Treacy (specialist in BHR). My partner had his first BHR (r/h) in 2004 done by Mr O’Hara and his second BHR (l/h) in 2025 by Mr Shakir Hussain. He would recommend the ROH everyday as an excellent, solely Orthopaedic hospital, the place is run so damn efficiently it is a credit to the NHS. Wherever you have your surgery done, I wish you a pain free future and keep on blogging 🙏. Jan D.

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    1. Hello Jan D. Thank you so much for bringing Mr Hussain to my attention. I've been reading up about him and he sounds fantastic especially how he's starting to do day surgery on hip replacement patients. My previous surgeon, Mr Siddique, has sadly now retired so the info is really welcome. I hope your partner is doing well with his two bionic hips and your kindess is very much appreciated! xxx

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  10. I'm so glad you've had the results for your hip - now you know where you stand. Wishing you the best of luck for your hip replacement. I have several friends who've had them and it's given them a new lease of life. I'm with you on the not sitting on your arse all day - I do some work online, but absolutely make sure I spend plenty of time active.

    Loving your outfits and nails. That t-shirt is super cute, the cap and denim waistcoat are absolutely my style. I watched Dark Winds and really enjoyed it, thanks for the recommendation. I love that kind of thing and the Outback Noir stuff.

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    1. Thanks, Tanya Eve! I'm glad your friends are doing well, a hip replacement really is a game changer even though it is a bit daunting!
      Keeping active makes so much of a difference, doesn't it? There's a woman I swim with who has MS and she's an inspiration for staying fit and not letting her diagnosis define her.
      Isn't Dark Winds fantastic? xxx

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  11. I am so pleased for you that you have been seen about your hip and I hope you soon get a date for the operation. I loved your description of William joining in your morning exercises, beautiful boy. Your hair looks so pretty dried naturally. I have let my hair grow lately and it always looks better dried naturally. Take care. Regards Sue H

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    1. Thanks, Sue! I doubt if it will be any time soon but after waiting 27 years for my last one to be diagnosed I can sort of live with it!
      Hair-dried hair never looks as good as when the hairdresser does it, much better letting nature take her course! xxx

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  12. Apparently it was so hot in Malta when they were filming, most of them ended up in the pools or the sea by the end of the day! Don't blame them! Glad your treatment is progressing. At least you'll look gorgeous while recuperating in your snazzy nightwear!Where are you watching For All Mankind? I have Amazon Prime free for another two weeks. Hope it's on there. I remember when you planted up your wildflower 'meadow'! Where does the time go?Have a great weekend.xxx

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    1. Sounds good to me! That was us in Corfu last year when it was 44°C - oh for those tenmperatures again, it's proper chilly today!
      For All Mankind is on Apple - sorry! I think it's £9.99 for a month with a free week thrown in - well worth it, Widows Bay, Criminal Record and Slow Horses are all on there! xxx

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  13. Good news that your hip issues are being taken seriously, just hope you do not have to wait too long.

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    1. It does make a difference - after waiting 27 years until someone took my other hip seriously! xxx

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  14. I'm hopeful for you that you get scheduled soon and have matching bionic hips. Ive nit gad luck getting my wildflower patch to grow but yours are beautiful. I'll keep trying to figure it out. My yard has the wild bit down, just not the color. With Outlander done, I've started watching The Last Kingdom. I never saw any of these series when first run. The late 800's were quite a time to live.

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    1. I'd love to be the Bionic Women, she was my hero as a kid! I don't think it'll be any time soon (average wait is around 18 weeks) but having a diagnosis, even if it was the one I didn't want, makes it feel a bit better! I never saw either of those shoes, I read on eof the Outlander books and it put me off, far too soppy! xxx

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  15. Beautiful hair and epic cat jumper.... I'm in love 💕 Also, glad to hear you've been given a clear plan for your new hip as it's a bit of a lottery with the NHS (wonderful when it works, not so if you have to put up a fight!). On a lighter note, I'm completely late to the party and just finished watching The English. Oh my word, I'm now addicted to Emily Blunt's Victorian-Western look haha! Consequently, I've been revisiting your cowgirl chic posts from 2022 😂 Rachael x

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    1. Thanks, Rachael! My hair is a lot more manageable with those layers. How fab is that jumper? Good old C&A, eh?
      The NHS is brilliant and frustraing in equal measure. I feel a lot better for having a diagnosis and knowing things are slowly moving on.
      The English was superb, I've watched it a couple of times now, the story, Emily's costumes, Eli Whip (swoon) and how scary the usually lovely Rafe Spall is! xxx

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  16. The French manicure looks beautiful. It really makes your jewelry stand out.

    The subtle layers in your hair are fantastic.
    xoxo

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  17. I hope the surgery is soon but you’re still able to go away first. I had to buy nightwear when I had my surgery and hospital stay. They have left my life now. Good luck and many hugs. I do love William. He picked the perfect parents.

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    1. Thanks so much, Marjorie, William is such a feisty boy but we love him! The average wait is between 5 - 6 months, a vast improvement on my last one, I waited for 18 months ! xxx

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  18. Hi Vix, hope your hip replacement goes well! How's the book coming along? Is My Husband a good read? X

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    1. Thanks, Jess! I doubt anything will happen for months and months, the NHS is brilliant but very slow when it comes to joint replacements. MY Husband was really good, a fantastic twist at the end! xxx

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  19. It must be a relief to have a way forward with getting your hip sorted. I hope you won't have too long to wait, but at least you'll look amazing in your new nightie.
    Your umbrella plant looks impressive! I'm happy to report that my pilea seems to be growing again, since I re-potted it. X

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    1. Great news on the Pilea, Jules! I'm always a bit wary after repotting a beloved plant just in case I've traumatised it! I think I've got along wait ahead but knowing I've got a diagnosis and that I'm in the system makes it a little easier to live with. xxx

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  20. It is great you're taking a proactive approach to it all, Vix. The worst thing is to give up. Exercise matters a lot. I've been on immune suppressant therapy for almost 20 years, and I was fine until very recently. The last bone density test I did was terrible, I'm facing osteoporosis at a young age due to the medication I'm taking- and that I can't live without. However, the damage is not so severe when it comes to my back, it is mostly my hips and neck that are damaged. So, now I do hip exercises, too. I also have an explanation as for why my back is not as badly damaged as other bones in my body...and it's exercise. Due to my rather severe scoliosis I have to do back exercises every day. It turns out it helped postpone some of the damage. Medical exercise and physical therapy can help a lot in some cases...Of course, it is also important to do it correctly- for this we need some expert help and guidance. After that specialist guidance and medical help, it is up to us and our determination. I'm sure that the fact you've always helped active helps. Imagine where we would be if we had just given up like some people do. I hope everything will be sorted soon with your hip. Stay strong!
    As always, I love your fashion choices. I've been loving the summer inspired looks on your Youtube channel. It is great to be able to see your outfits on video. Here it has gotten extremely hot, but I have to wait a bit before I jump into tops, dresses and swimsuits. I have to stick with formal and professional dressing for school for a few days...After that, I will be embracing Summer fashion all the way. :)

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    1. Ivana, I'm so sorry to hear of the side effect from those tablets but glad that you keeping fit and keeping going has helped lessen the impact of long-term medication on your back. So many people seem content to label themselves as "disabled" and give up, making excuses not to exercise. One of Arthritis UK's tips for managing arthritic pain is "denial", something I've always done, once you give pain an inch, it takes a mile and consumes you! xxx

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  21. I guess the hip replacement was unavoidable and although I imagine it's not something you are looking forward, I'm sure you'll be glad when it's finally sorted. And at least you'll be prepared with that gorgeous nightie :-)
    Although I'm loving all your fabulous outfits, the All About Audrey dress is a definite standout and a true stunner.
    And how gorgeous is your wildflower meadow! xxx

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    1. Thanks so much, Ann! It's a lot better knowing the problem even if it wasn't what I wanted! That dress is so bright and cheery and I didn't even have to take it up, always a plus! xxx

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  22. Glad that you got news quickly and now you can get ready for that hip replacement, sometimes the worst part is having to wait just to know!. Well done on acquiring a dress gown and a nightie, as feeling as comfy (and fabulous) as possible is important.
    Lovely to see you in that AllAboutAudrey fab maxi and so amazing manicure (and fantastic jewellery too!). Always lovely in your block printed pieces, love that blue one (greek vibes!). Also lovely layering of that wrap top over a pinafore, so matchy and gorgeous!
    And your wildflower meadow looks really beautiful!
    besos

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    1. Thnaks so much, Monica! Yes, it wasn't the news I wanted to hear but at least I have a diagnosis and hopefully, in a year's time, I'll have had a new hip, recovered and be back to my usual energetic self! xxx

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  23. hahah.. having to go out and buy a nightie just for the hospital is something so you! I wonder if you get a hip identity card here in the states? Loving your nails.

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    1. Haha! I do enjoy an excuse to shop!! Because I was so young (39) I had a special state of the art hip that wasn't generally used, I think only the recipients of those hips get a card although with the super duper new X-raying machines at airports I no longer set off the alarms! xxx

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  24. Ack, your poor hip! I hope you get scheduled for surgery soon! I laughed at William "helping" you on your exercises! Whateley likes to stand on my back when I'm planking as well!

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    1. Haha! I love that Whateley helps with your fitness training, too! xxx

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  25. Hi Vix, I am glad that you have heard the results now about your hip and the way forward for you. A stressful time for you. At least you have a new nightie sorted ! Talking of clothes I really like the Silverman pinafore dress. It looks very cool too. I haven’t t had a French manicure in a while but have a family wedding next month and may well indulge in one. I typically have quite long nails and have been told sometimes by a manicurist that mine are the longest they do. Young girls are amazed that they are real!

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    1. Thanks, Alysia! Just having a diagnosis makes me a little less frustrated, that's for certain. I'm trying not to spend all my waking hours hunting for bargain David Silverman dresses on Vinted but its very tempting.
      You ought to treat yourself to a French Manicure for that wedding, they really do emphasise long nails. My Mum's were exceptionally long although mine do grow very quickly! xxx

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  26. It's good that you got your diagnosis so quickly, I hope that the waiting list isn't too long. It would be nice to get it over and done with wouldn't it. My Husband by Maud Ventura sounds like a really good read.

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    1. Thanks, Sue! Walsall seems to be slightly more ahead in the waiting lists, averaging 18 weeks from referral to treatment. I live in hope! xxx

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  27. Your wildflower meadow has matured beautifully, Vix! It's a particularly appropriate memorial to the few good things that happened during the Plague -- a time when we practiced guerilla gardening (locally we're still sewing "pollinator pockets" for bees), learned how to bake and sew, caught up on our reading... OK, we also hoarded toilet paper and cat napped for hours. The lesson learned was to keep on, keeping on, with style and humor, like you!

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    1. Thanks, Beth! Yes, some folk piled on the pounds and others fell down a rabbit hole and got obsessed with conspiracy theories and the rest of us improved our living spaces, took up a craft and read! I love that your pollinator pockets are still flourishing! xxxx

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  28. Hi from Miami, dear Vix! Your face-framing layers look incredible! :) I was wondering, since I am in the land of absolutely horrendous healthcare, what it means to add your hip to the policy? Does that mean you add coverage if it totally gives out? I was puzzled because I am Very American, lol! Lovely to catch up with you and glad that you have some finality on your diagnosis. xo

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    1. Hello, my lovely friend! It's so good to hear from you! We have an annual (European) travel insurance policy. When we take out one of these policies we have to notify the insurers of any pre-existing conditions or clinical referrals as anything that arises from undisclosed medical issues makes the policy null and void. I don't think my hip is likely to cause any problems when I'm away other than annoy me for being useless (fingers crossed!). xxx

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    2. Oohhhhh, yes! The pre-existing condition part -- makes perfect sense. Well, since you are navigating well enough now, there's no reason to think it will be any more of an issue. Keep up with that jet-setting and remember that you can board first and get free seat upgrades :P

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    3. I'm glad it made sense, I'm rubbish at explaining things sometimes! I'm fine getting on the plane with the hoi polloi , passengers who request assistance have to wait for everyone else to get off the plane before they can. Much as I hate using a stick it does seem to posess magical powers and people stand back and gesture for me to go first wherever I go! xxx

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  29. Your wildflowers are looking beautiful but I would remove the docks before they drop their seeds. Cut the seed heads carefully without spilling any and try to dig out the roots. They’re thugs!

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    1. Thanks, Caroline! The docks have only popped up recently. I shall fllow your advice when I tackle the ground elder this weekend (if it ever stops raining!) xxx

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  30. It's good that they've identified the hip issue and are moving on with it. Here's hoping you're not waiting too long to get it fixed!

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  31. I knew you'd like that programme! Your bright Audrey dress is gorgeous!
    Your nails look very cool. I'm not a nail person as I bite but I can admire!

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