Thursday, 2 January 2025

The Box of Delights


I'm off on an adventure tomorrow and want to wear a piece of antique Birmingham silver, so I've been rummaging in my treasure chest.


 I'm not sure which of my dead relatives originally owned this scruffy Victorian leather box, its been mine since childhood and it holds all manner of interesting bits and pieces passed down to me from my female ancestors.


As a child I'd regularly go to church with my grandparents and carried my collection money in this Victorian silver purse. At eleven I was given the choice of continuing with the church or staying at home, I opted for the god-free option! 


A collection of Whitby Jet and Bog Oak mourning brooches - the Victorians embraced death and all things mourning related. I think the piece with a fern is a pocket book. 


More mourning jewellery. That's my great-great grandfather looking very Byronesque. The bog oak lockets contain human hair - not sure whose, though! 


My maternal Grandma's wedding and engagement rings.


Victorian Vesta case (for matches, Vesta was the Roman goddess of the hearth). My Mum used to wear this around her neck. This is a Birmingham piece.


I inherited this Victorian turquoise & gold ring (with the teeniest diamond ever) when I was fourteen, left to me by my Grandma's sister, Maud as turquoise is my birthstone. My grandma's family lived in Chester for many generations.  


This is Mum's engagement ring bought in 1966. She met my Dad, married him and had me within the space of a few months . She never wore this ring (or her wedding ring) as she considered wearing such things a sign of male oppression. It's a very cool looking ring - its a shame I don't like diamonds! 


A gold muff chain which belonged to my 2 x Great-Grandma. I did make myself a muff from a fake fur coat a few years ago and wore it quite often.


More blingy stuff, the top two are gold and Victorian and the one beside the Edwardian silver anchor is Georgian, cut steel made to resemble diamonds (and probably made in the Black Country).


My maternal grandpa's mother's pocket watch. I don't do watches (I'm a witch, they stop when I wear them) but that blue enamel is gorgeous, isn't it?


I used to wear this Victorian silver pendant quite a lot. It's marked with an anchor so hallmarked in Birmingham. 

This etched glass trinket is obviously Victorian, Osborne House and the Old Church at Ventnor were favourite haunts of Queen Victoria. I think this was something Mum or Grandma bought at a church jumble sale when you used to be able to pick up antiques for pennies.


That's my great grandma Mary Alice Chapman of the Adams pottery dynasty. I often wear her monogrammed brooch. 


Here's her locket...





This tiny prayer book in the silver sleeve was something else I used to take to church as a child (I obviously had better eyesight back then, I can't make out a word without my specs these days!)


This is a lot bigger in real-life. It's Victorian lead crystal with a gold mount and was regularly worn by my Mum back in the 1970s. I remember how excited she was to find it in a box of junk at a flea market during the school holidays, it was 20p!


Hallmarked in Birmingham and made by A&J Zimmerman in 1889, this beautiful woman was originally a button but was converted into a pendant by my Grandma. Can you imagine how gorgeous the jacket it came from must have been? 

Now I've just got to decide which piece of silver to wear tomorrow....decisions, decisions! 

47 comments:

  1. Wow - a veritable treasure chest indeed! I've inherited items that I would never wear nor would I part with. I have a jade pendant that my Great Uncle collected when he did the Silk Route to China - he brought it back the pendant for his young sister (my Gran) and she passed it on to me when I was a similar age. A link to the past 💚

    ReplyDelete
    Replies
    1. The Silk Route! What a fascinating and adventurous chap your Great Uncle must have been, if that pendant could talk! I love getting the box out and having a look every now and again, its so special to be able to handle history. xxx

      Delete
  2. What a beautiful box of beautiful goodies. I have bits of family "stuff" but mainly only my mum's jewellery. A couple of oldish bits from my dad's mum, but those were probably "lucky finds" that my dad's brother, (and his wife!!), missed, when going thru' her home like a dose of salts!! My mum never seemed to be lucky with her jewels, didn't get, didn't like, things she was given. I lost my Victorian ring from a great aunt, but that turquoise one of, is a lovely reminder. I have to say, if I had kids, they'd be very hard-pressed to find anything of worth in my jewellery box, but I have some very much loved items!! Zxx ❤️❤️

    ReplyDelete
    Replies
    1. Hello Z! How awful about your uncle rifling through your grandma's stuff first, death often brings out the worst in people, doesn't it? Mum & Grandma loved big, bold and chunky jewellery, a trait I've obviously inherited, but as a child I was fascinated by all that dainty, sparkly stuff and could play with it for hours.
      If I had kids I'd probably have had to sell the lot to buy them shoes! xxx

      Delete
  3. Oh, I love seeing all these gorgeous pieces, Vix - thank you so much for sharing them! With your mum's engagement ring, have you thought of trading in the diamond for a stone you prefer more? A topaz would be beautiful (in any colour). More of a mum-to-daughter connection then?

    ReplyDelete
    Replies
    1. Thanks, Sheila! that's a brilliant idea about the engagement ring. I'm not generally a fan of sparkly stones but I'll have to do some homework and see if there's something that appeals. The diamond is pretty big I bet I could flog that on its own to pay for the work. xxx

      Delete
  4. Oh, and a very Happy New Year to you, Jon and William. May your days be filled with good times with your chosen family, music that moves you, and quiet times that revive you. Oh, and may the Thrift Gods smile upon you and save you all the best stock. <3

    ReplyDelete
    Replies
    1. Thanks so much, wishing you the same! xxx

      Delete
  5. Wow, what beautiful pieces. I love your mum and grandma's engagement rings. X

    ReplyDelete
    Replies
    1. Thanks, Jess! I've got into gold coloured jewellery of late and was tempted to wear both Grandma's and Mum's rings with my gilt costume jewellery rings when I went to the pub the other day then thought better of it just in case I lost them! xxx

      Delete
  6. Your Treasure Chest holds such fabulous Treasures! Happy New Year.

    ReplyDelete
    Replies
    1. Thanks Dawn and a very Happy New Year to you, too! xxx

      Delete
  7. It was a joy seeing your treasure box and lovely Victorian pieces. When I was a teen I was handed a bag of Victorian jewelry items that belonged to a long gone relative. I think I was given them because no one else wanted them. I adore them all. and wore them through high school and beyond. They connect me to the past in mysterious ways.
    Best Wishes, Gail from PA. USA.

    ReplyDelete
    Replies
    1. Hello Gail and a Happy New Year to you! I think that must be why I ended up with most of that jewellery, it wasn't to anyone else's taste. I love it for the connection with the past, there's something almost electric about wearing things our ancestors would have done is there? xxx

      Delete
  8. I would choose the Vesta match box its fabulous! You have an interesting collection, if Antiques Roadshow ever come your way, I hope you would take them along to show everyone! I have seen those little silver purses in my childhood, being ocd as soon as I saw yours I remembered the smell of the silver! ha ha. Have a lovely adventure today, can't wait for your next post to see where you have been! Betty

    ReplyDelete
    Replies
    1. Morning, Betty! I'm leaning towards the vesta case, people talk about them being obsolete in the days of safety matches but they're the perfect size for wearing as a pendant. I'd love to go to the Antiques Roadshow but I'd be far too shy to sit in front of a camera!
      Yes, that silver smell! I only have to take the top off the Goddard's polish to take me back to helping polish the cutlery at Grandma's! xxx

      Delete
  9. Truly a treasure chest! I love the last button/pendant and think you should wear that and the turquoise ring. Whatever you wear you will look amazing as always. Hope you have a great day. Regards Sue H

    ReplyDelete
    Replies
    1. Thanks, Sue! I'm still pondering, I tik that button pendant will feature! xxx

      Delete
  10. What a fabulous range of treasures you have there to choose from. My Mum has all her family pieces, but I do have a lovely simple Victorian garnet ring from her grandmother and a beautiful garnet brooch from my grandmother which was a 40th birthday present. I'm keen to start wearing some brooches again. Arilx

    ReplyDelete
    Replies
    1. Its lovely that your mum has some family pieces, the brooch and ring sound very pretty. Brooches are so popular these days, I sold loads at the festivals last year. xxx

      Delete
  11. HI Vix, how amazing is your Box of Delights? You have such cool stuff, but it all has a story behind it which gives it such a depth. Thanks for the birthday wishes, I don't know how you remember all the details of your reader's lives. I imagined you with a spreadsheet of details so that you can comment to us, Ha,Ha,Ha! In the eighties those corporate types used to do that and I had a couple of people I knew who thought they were so savvy when they asked the boss about little Amelia when they met her, Eurgh! your family heirlooms are beautiful, you could put Jon in front of the cameras on Antiques Roadshow, he's used to it, or was. My choice for the outing would be the button pendant, it is fab and reminds me of the pre raphaelite paintings in the Birmingham Museum and Art Gallery. Which always remind me of you when I visit there. I hope 2025 is an abundance of fun and joy for you, Jon and William. Shelagh XX

    ReplyDelete
    Replies
    1. Hello Shelagh! I have a freakish memory, people will come into the shop at festivals and I'll ask them if they're still wearing the garment they bought from us ten years ago but I can walk into a room and forget what I've gone in there for!
      That'd be a good idea, sticking Jon in front of the camera if we ever visited the Roadshow.
      That button is stunning, isn't it? I'm trying to figure out what to wear, its flipping freezing out there! xxx
      PS I'm very flattered with the comparison with the Pre-Raphs!

      Delete
  12. Vix, I was delighted to see your photograph of bog oak jewelry. I have been reading Patricia Wentworth's Miss Silver detective novels and Miss Silver, a woman of a certain age, wears clothing and jewelry of a much earlier era than the novels' settings including a bog oak brooch. So much fun to see what bog oak looks like!

    ReplyDelete
    Replies
    1. Hello Tess! Now there's a coincidence, now you can enjoy Miss Silver's exploits all the more being able to visualise her brooch. I shall have to investigate that book! xxx

      Delete
    2. And speaking of reading...Vix, what is your secret to getting so many books read each year? Do you avoid all other forms of reading such as newspapers, magazines, and hyper-linked blog posts? Enquiring minds would love to know!

      Delete
    3. Got it in one, Tess! I limit my screen time and don't read newspapers and magazines. I do see to have got through more books than usual in 2024! xxx

      Delete
  13. What a lovely collection! my only treasure from a relative is a tiny box with my nans fillet crochet hooks. They are so tiny and delicate and I adore them. Plus she taught me to sew which has been a constant to my whole life and happiness. She's been gone many years but her strange Welsh ways and generosity stay with me always x

    ReplyDelete
    Replies
    1. Lisa, those crochet hooks sound absolutely gorgeous and even more special for conjuring up memories of your crafty Welsh nan. xxx

      Delete
  14. What a cool treasure box of memories! CaliG

    ReplyDelete
  15. Hi Vix. I'd say the vesta case on a long silver chain. I've got one, too but it's on a pocket watch chain. Louise (Mids) X x x

    ReplyDelete
    Replies
    1. Hello Louise, I ended up wearing the vesta and a couple of other pieces. Considering how many of those vesta cases were assayed in Birmingham its strange how few I come across, they do make great pendants, don't they? xxx

      Delete

  16. The jewelry is magical and they have history.
    The silver purse is wonderful. I can see it right in front of me as you went to church with it.

    ReplyDelete
    Replies
    1. Thanks, Andrea! The little purse is so sweet, not much use in these days of mobile phones, sadly! xxx

      Delete
  17. I absolutely loved rummaging in your treasure chest full of family heirlooms with you! What splendid treasures, a box of delight indeed.
    Your great grandma's locket, that gorgeous button turned pendant, the Victorian silver purse and vesta case are among my favourites.
    I wonder which piece has accompanied you on your outing ... xxx

    ReplyDelete
    Replies
    1. Thanks, Ann! I couldn't choose in the end so I wore three pieces! xxx

      Delete
  18. That's a beautiful jewelry collection, and I love the fact that you know something about the story behind each piece. Also, I think it's great that you were given the option of not going to church any more when you were 11 years old. Most parents who are devoted churchgoers make their kids keep attending for as long as those kids are living under the same roof. I believe religion and spirituality are things people have to figure out for themselves as they get older. A little basic teaching is what every kid needs, and after a while, they should be free to choose.

    Emily

    ReplyDelete
    Replies
    1. Hello Emily! I love having that connection with my past! Luckily for me, my parents weren't religious but felt we should have the option just it case we resented being given the opportunity. You're right, its far better to be given choices rather than the previous generation inflicting their beliefs on us. xxx

      Delete
  19. Wow! You've got some beautiful pieces there, Vix. And I love that you know the history of each one. Xx

    ReplyDelete
  20. Happy New Year Vix! Thank you for your wonderful blog. I don't comment often but it definitely is a favourite. Love your treasures. Regards, Lise on the Black Sea.

    ReplyDelete
    Replies
    1. Hello, Lise in the Black Sea! Wishing you a very happy New Year and thanks so much for reading and commenting! xxx

      Delete
  21. This is so interesting
    thank you for sharing!

    ReplyDelete
  22. I used to love going to church every Sunday with my Nana and dropping my penny in the collection plate. But when I got to eleven I was told by the curate that I either had to attend confirmation classes and be confirmed, or stop going ... so I stopped going.

    I love that old box, and it is truly a treasure chest to be treasured for ever. What a lot of lovely pieces, I especially like the converted button. :-)

    ReplyDelete
    Replies
    1. My favourite part of going to church on a Sunday was going to the cricket club afterwards and playing on the fruit machine. I think it was the thought of confirmation that put me off, too! xxx

      Delete

Thanks for reading and for leaving a message. Please don't be anonymous, I'd love it if you left a name (or a nom de plume).

Lots of love, Vix