Friday 5 February 2021

The Distancing Diairies - 4th & 5th February, 2021


 On Thursday morning after my Wii Fit workout I caught up with blog comments before joining Jon for breakfast. We'd intended to go on a heritage walk but got distracted by measuring our pupillary distance (don't ask) so decided to postpone our adventure until Friday and make do with a walk around the block instead.


We chatted to neighbours Ray & Florence, he was off for his Covid vaccine, she'd had hers two weeks previously. We bumped into an old school friend and chatted about the neighbourhood cats as he's as mad about them as we are (Of course, I don't need to tell you that we maintained social distancing at all times but I will anyway). Jon wore the Pierre Sangan 1960s all-wool jumper I'd persuaded him to snaffle from the Kinky Shed. It's perfect with the vintage cord jacket, don't you think?

Wear:Sleep:Repeat! I'm rewearing Wednesday's 1970s Anokhi jacket over a vintage Adini Indian gauzy maxi which I still can't believe I found in a charity shop for £3. 

The details: Vintage amulet pendant (Gujarat), Afghan earrings (eBay) and my old faithful Clarks' clogs boots, my go-to footwear when I'm struggling to walk (they look higher than they actually are!)

Back at home I had a phone call from Specsavers asking me to book an appointment as my glasses were ready - a second date for the calendar! I chatted to Liz on the phone, had noodles for lunch and while Jon continued with the hard drive swapover I photographed sportswear in the garden (and did a load of washing after dropping it all in a puddle) then wrapped my latest Ebay sales and read a bit more of my book.


After Jon had finished I listed my stuff on eBay and printed off my postage labels ready for Friday's post office run.


Tea with haloumi with roasted red & green peppers, shallots and potatoes accompanied with a glass of wine. 

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The previous evening we'd finished Bullets and started It's A Sin, which is utterly magnificent and you need to watch immediately. Following a group of friends, mostly in their late teens and early twenties, who move to London in 1981 and have their lives turned upside down by HIV/AIDS, I was instantly transported to my own mispent youth.

Me in 1983

Whilst my classmates mooned over the rugby-playing lads from the boys' school and dreamt of wedding dresses, diamond clusters and the happy-ever-after I was climbing out of the window and podium dancing to Miquel Brown & Hazell Dean at Birmingham's legendary Gay super club, The Nightingale. The clientèle were a exotic mix of leather boys, drag queens and Boy George wannabes so a skinny teenage girl in 1960s dresses, fetish boots, orange eye shadow and a back-combed to buggery spiral perm barely raised an eyebrow. It made a refreshing change from being the laughing stock of the mainstream wine bars of Walsall. Although my gay boyfriends were forever calling round, doing my make-up or borrowing from my massive wardrobe of vintage clothes, my parents never found out about my secret clubbing life or that one of my mates lived in my bedroom for months after his parents disowned him for coming out. 
Bizarrely, echoing the gang of friends in It's A Sin, my best boy friends included a wannabe actor who stayed in the closet, a beautiful boy of Indian heritage and a shy Welsh lad, fresh from the valleys. This was our song. 


On Friday morning I did my final Wii Fit workout of the week, put away the sportswear I'd washed yesterday following my mishap, wrapped the overnight ebay sales and joined Jon in the kitchen for breakfast. After we'd got dressed we set off on our heritage walk walking towards the town centre via Ablewell Street, named after the Able well, where the townsfolk of Walsall got their water from back in Mediaeval times. Yes, Walsall has been a settlement since Saxon times. The town is first mentioned in texts from the early 11th century, when it was known as Walh Halh, meaning Celt's Valley.


12, Pool Street dates from 1930, a former bridle and buckle works. A two storey structure with a flat roof and iron windows, it's been a 24 hour gym for ages but obviously now closed due to Covid restrictions (much to my brother's disapointment).


The mock Tudor Royal Hotel used to be the place to go back in the day. My parents held their wedding reception in their function room in 1966 although most people crowded into the hotel lounge to watch the England Vs West Germany cup final, held on the same day. I worked behind the bar for a while in the 1980s although the mainstream clientele and chart music used to bore the pants off me (as mentioned in my teenage confessions earlier). Obviously its another place currently closed.


Nessa's! This is where the Dead Relatives Society used to meet for our annual Xmas day curry. Sadly it became a takeaway last year and the restaurant converted into a barber's shop (another business closed due to the pandemic). I haven't had a takeaway since 2019 or eaten a curry that wasn't cooked at home since 15th February, 2020 when we ate at the uber-hip Bombay Vintage in Mumbai. The building itself dates to around 1750 (the same age as Stonecroft)  and happily the first floor still bears its original sash windows and elaborate lintels.




Central Hall Methodist Church was built in 1849 but the frontage extension was added in 1929. Back in the 1990s Walsall became known as the most obese town in the UK with the media coining the phrase The Walsall Wobblies to describe a large percentage of the population. In a bid to improve the town's fitness the council and the NHS got together and offered free exercise classes to one and all. I used to go to Pilates classes here after my hip replacement every Wednesday lunchtime. Unfortunately the free fitness sessions were shelved when the Tories introduced austerity. 


Silver Knight is a purpose built early motor garage in the Art Deco style with a round corner facade dating to the 1920s. 


Amen to that!





Just off Ablewell Street in Goodall Street stands the School of Art, built in 1859 by architects GB Nichols and Morgan in the Italianate style. Shortly after moving to Walsall in 1952, my Grandma took art classes here. One of her classmates was Raymond Leslie Morris aka The Monster of Cannock Chase, who went on to murder three schoolgirls in the late 1960s.





Back in the early 1980s Boy George lived in a squat here with Sigue Sigue Sputnik frontman & Walsall boy, Martin Degville. George, dressed in a Elizabethan ruff, a tin foil suit and in full make-up, was a common sight in the town centre for several years.


Now I've explained about the correct pronunciation of Caldmore you'll find Tinie Tempest's Tweet as amusing as I do. 



Back on Ablewell Street, on the junction of Upper Rushall Street is the former Borough Arms Public House, becoming Flan O'Briens when everyone went crazy for Irish pubs in the 1990s. Built in 1903 in a free style but with an Art Nouveau accent, the ground floor is fronted with green and brown tiles and the upper floor combines brick with extensive salmon pink dressings and mouldings. The original stained and leaded glass, mullion and transom windows survive. It's gorgeous inside although it's been ages since we last called in.






Just over the road from Flan O'Brien's is Tantarra Street School (housing association flats since the late 1980s), built in 1872 in the Gothic style.



Walsall Box Company was established in the late 19th Century, the box making arm of T Kirby and Sons Limited, a printing business. The current premises in Bank Street opened in 1918 and run by the fourth generation of the family.


I love the original paintwork. 



With the sky threatening rain we finished our walk just in time and made our way home where, after Jon had done to post office run, we had noodles and took delivery of our litter collecting gear - our new job starts tomorrow!


Meanwhile my Wear:Sleep:Repeat challenge continued ......


Thursday's vintage Adini dress had another outing, this time worn with another vintage Anokhi jacket from my collection (eBay), a charity shopped belt and my orange fedora, a retail buy (in the sale) back in 2019.


The details: Obsolete Indian paise coins threaded on a shoelace (by me!); Mjus charity shopped boots and Indian earrings (present from Curtise).


I did a load of washing, dusted the spare bedroom, tidied up the wardrobe & spritzed the houseplants whilst Jon finished the great hard drive switchover and handed it back. It's certainly faster (and quieter!)


Tea was pizza...what else? Tonight it'll be rum & cola and the last of It's A Sin (sob!)

Stay safe & see you soon!

83 comments:

  1. I enjoy your walking tours. I'm unlikely to ever get to Walsall.

    It's -30C and snowing today. We should be on the Costa del Sol.

    Stay warm, stay safe.

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    1. Bloody hell, -30°C! I don't think I could cope.
      I hope you get to the Costa del Sol eventually. We stayed in Nerja when we went many years ago, it was beautiful and hot enough to sunbathe even in February. xxx

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  2. I smiled at your Misspent Youth comment. In my student days I went on a bus trip to Glasgow with a load of Arab students to march in a PLO demonstration.... I didn't even know who/what the PLO was.

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    1. We were so much more fearless when we were young, weren't we? I feel so sad for all the teenagers today, unable to go out and have adventures. xxx

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  3. What a super blog post. I’ve really enjoyed getting to know Walsall through your eyes and seeing where your family fit in.
    Jon does look good in that rescued jumper. In fact he’s looking so well and rocking the beard.
    Will you be doing your little pick close to home or do they allocate an area to you. I bet you’ll have some tales to tell us.
    Enjoy your programme and evening you two xxxx

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    1. I reminded Jon that Philip loves Pierre Sangan knitwear, I think that's what persuaded him to keep the jumper!
      We can pick wherever we like to litter pick but with the Covid regs we can't travel or go out more than once a day. I'm too cold to start! xxx

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  4. I am really enjoying your walks around Walsall....we've been doing some of the heritage walks round here and I am learning lots about my local patch. Watched "It's a sin" a few days ago and cried, smiled and reminisced as I was the same age. Hours spent dancing to things like the 12" version of Tainted Love. My former room mate was related to one of the Sigue Sigue Sputnik members in some way. My music choice was more along the lines of Human League, Joy Division, The Cult and my then boyfriend was a Goth. I had winklepickers that I had bought in the Kings Road with metal buckles on that I was very proud of, but the toes were just so long! Arilx

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    1. I love your heritage walks, too. You're so good at spotting the little details.
      How funny, one of my friends is Martin Degville's cousin, it's a small world.
      I must admit I was more into The Smiths, The Cult & The Cure but a bit of Hi-Energy on a Saturday night was just brilliant.
      Oh those pointy boots with all the buckles. I was forever tripping up over my own feet! xxx

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  5. Massive giggles reading this. You have the best ever stories - please keep them coming xx

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  6. Clothes first! Jon, would you please talk to L about wearing jumpers like this? I think he would wear one if he saw how dashing they look under a nice jacket. He won't listen to me, even though I'm the "expert." Love your outfits, Vix, and all the permutations! Don't you love shoes that only LOOK high? I hope your hips are feeling better!

    OMG, that picture of you! What a lovely smile you have - it made me realize you always smile with your mouth closed. How cool to have that show to give you such a major flashback to your past. I was a rather "by the rules" teen, until I was well into my 20s, so nothing so exciting as you and your mates. I love the Karma/Caldmore connection!

    I love all the buildings and architecture, and THANK YOU for all the bits of historical information. The Burrough Arms is a gorgeous building. Nothing here older than about 1867, as that's when the population of non-natives took over and built it all up into a city. I took a ton of pictures in our local graveyard yesterday and will have them up in a couple of hours - I think you will enjoy looking at them.

    Enjoy your rum and cokes! Happy weekend, dear Vix!!

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    1. Why is L not listening to you? He'd look fantastic in a polo neck. Men, huh?
      I can't seem to smile like I did in the 1980s for outfit photos with my teeth on show, my mouth just seems to freeze. That was an official school photo, the photographer was a real pro as I absolutely hated habving my photo taken back then and yet I look so relaxed.
      I had a very strange home life as a teenager and was pretty much left to my own devices but despite the freedoms I never got into too much trouble (or at least, never got found out!)
      I adored your graveyard photos, it's wonderful to see our friends' neighbourhoods through their eyes! xxx

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  7. "one of my mates lived in my bedroom for months after his parents disowned him for coming out" - just another reason to love you :)

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    1. When i think back to my teenage years I wonder at how I'm still around! xxx

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  8. Jon looks gooooooooooooooooooooood in that jumper and jacket combo!
    £3??? You are kidding me? For such a wonderful maxi!?
    Look at you in your teen years! So cute! It's great to hear about your teen years!
    Bloody tories- what a good thing the free exercise classes sounded!I'd really like to try Pilates.
    How fascinating about Grandma and her associates!

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    1. Jon really suits a polo neck and smart jacket!
      I couldn't get out of the charity fast enough when I spotted that dress, it's twin sold on ebay recently for £450!
      Pilates was so good, we'd have such a diverse group of people from octogenarians in wheelchairs to teenagers, not only good for the body but a wonderful community building activity, too. Bloody Tories! xxx

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  9. that was sure fun to come along-and I remembered the pronunciation. It's nice to run inot people even with socially distanced. I think my dog misses people. I was more wild than I let on-my group was a quiet sort, but found where we could get in for live music.

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    1. It's so quiet everywhere, I'm not sure I'll be able to cope when life returns to normal and the streets are busy again! xxx

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  10. What a great tour! Those buildings are such amazing examples of architecture as a true art form. The Public House is my favorite - it must be absolutely breathtaking when you go by it on your walks. Thank you for sharing these treasures.

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    1. The pub is gorgeous, one day when pubs reopen I promise to go inside and take photos of the amazing fireplace and wood pannelling. xxx

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  11. Thanks for all you do to show Walsall! What a treat.

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  12. That was an interesting walk round Walsall, there are so many untouched buildings with original signage which I love. I loved also reading about your Gay nightclub scene days, we seem to have had similar friends/likes. I worked at Benji's in Mile End in those days (London's East End), the gays were so well dressed and made up they would put a woman to shame! A film was made about the place/scene but it now seems to be obsolete. The great thing about working in that environment was I always felt very safe. Your outfits this week have been really inventive and fun and I only wish now that I could fill my sad and empty wardrobe to the brim with things like yours lol! Thanks for keeping up these posts, it's amazing how another persons routine fascinates!

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    1. I remember Benjis haven't thought of it for years but you're right they were so very well groomed. Always felt very safe there unlike some other places in the East End. Thanks for the memories

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    2. Hello Betty! One day we'll sit down properly and share stories of our weird homelife, quirky mothers and gay nights out. Benji's sounds fantastic and I love that your comment has brought back wonderful memories for the unknown commenter.
      You're right, it was wonderful to be able to dance, go to the bar or use the loo without being harrassed by predatory men and, of course, to be aurrounded by people who look real pride in their appearances. My friends would spend all week planning their outfits! xxx

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  13. who is the dapper chap in the chic jumper und cord jacket?!
    thanx for the tour to the older and newer history of walsall! and for the peek into your wild youth.....
    the challenge is still going fabulous! nice to see that gorgeous jacket again!
    i wonder if i should make us a spelt pizza this days...... :-D
    xxxxx

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    1. I hardly recognise that man - he used to dress up a lot more!
      Mmmm....spelt pizza would be lovely. xxx

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  14. I am so glad you watched It's A Sin. I absolutely loved it.
    And thank you for the recommendation for Erotic Stories of Punjabi Widows. It was such a good read, I have passed it on t my friend.
    I am also just about to finish Mayflies by Andrew O'Hagan which I would reccomend. The first part follows a group of Scottish teenagers on a weekend in Manchester (where I grew up) to watch The Smiths and the second part if 30 years later after one of them has a terminal diagnosis.
    It is so beautifully written and the author captures the very essence of life and friendship. It is lovely to see male friendships explored too.
    And now to the outfits. Fabulous as always, I love your clogs and you wear belts so well.
    Have a great weekend.
    Jane X

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    1. Hello Jane! Mayflies sounds absolutely brilliant, I shall add that to my ebook list as it sounds right up my street. I'm so glad you enjoyed Erotic Stories for Punjabi Windows, like It's A Sin, it's both uplifting and sad in equal measure. xxx

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  15. Hi there, I rarely comment on blogs but I find yours truly interesting. I enjoy reading about your life and your trips out and about locally. I live in N.W. Italy so learning about your way of life and incredibly innovative mode of dressing is a very bright light in these dark times (Brexit & Covid the gifts that keep on giving)!! Stay safe ~ virtual hugs from abroad. Ro xx

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    1. Hello Ro! It's lovely to hear from you and I'm so glad you get enjoyment from reading my blog posts. Much love to you in NW Italy. xxx

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  16. It's a Sin sounds like an interesting thing to watch. It's fun seeing you with blond permed hair and reading about your days of clubbing and being a part of the alternative scene. Interesting that Boy George lived in the area. It's always fun to walk around the block with you because you always explain things and buildings so well, often from a historical point of view and with interesting anecdotes. It's always a shame to see a business closed down due to Covid.
    Jon does look stylish in that jumper and suede jacket. I always enjoy your outfits as well. You are doing really well in the wear, sleep and repeat challenge.

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    1. Thanks, Ivana! I'm glad you enjoyed the post! xxx

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  17. I remember the Nightingale although I never went in there, there was a pub opposite I used to go to but my memory is shocking, I can’t remember what it was called.

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    1. We used to go straight to The Nightingale although in the 1990s we'd often do a pub crawl along Hurst Street first, there were loads of great bars along there. xxx

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  18. In 1983 I was exercising to Miquel Brown at my weekly aerobics class to get rid of the baby blubber I'd acquired the previous year! Interesting architecture round your way. I wonder where the red bricks originated from? Who'd have guessed Boy George is now hob-knobbing with The Real Housewives of Beverly Hills? Have a good weekend, both.xxx

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    1. Great choice for an aerobic workout! The red bricks are made up the road in Staffordshire, of which Walsall was a part until the boundary change in the 1970s.
      Boy George in that housewife programme? No way! xxx

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  19. I loved It's a Sin. It made me laugh and cry and the soundtrack was great. Really well done piece of TV for a change. Love reading your postings they really cheer me up. I'm in the Scottish borders a beautiful place normally but we've had 6 days of rain and now we're braced for snow. Think I'll just cuddle up with cat and have a couple of gins later.

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    1. Hello! My cousins Robert & Joan live in Hawick, I haven't been since I was a child but remember it being an absolutely lovely place.
      It's A Sin was just wonderful, wasn't it? I bet your rain has been replaced by snow now, all the more reason to cuddle the cat and drink gin! Lovely to hear from you. xxx

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  20. What an interesting life you have led, Vix. I loved reading the tales of your misspent youth. How messy was your bedroom that your Mum never realised you had a lodger???? Good on you. I vividly remember watching the Horizon episode "Killer in the Village". It was my first introduction to AIDS. When the follow up was screened a year later, all the young men featured and a wife were dead. It shocked me profoundly. I am loving "It's a Sin", clever Russell T Davis. I have laughed and cried. So poignant. Love the blonde Vix photo. Jon looks venerable now with his beard. Great outfits both of you. That was another fabulous walking tour of Walsall. What amazing buildings you have in your back yard. I have really enjoyed going on these tours with you, the Walsall ambassador. I'm always glad to see old buildings reappropriated rather than left to moulder and decline. Weather is really wild here but, luckily, it's the Calcutta Cup this afternoon so I'm primed for an orgy of Six Nations' rugby. Feels like a real weekend! Oggy, oggy oggy!

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    1. Hello Catmac! I had the most bizarre upbringing, I thought it was normal at the time.
      It's A Sin has been so good, I always worry when everyone starts raving about how good something is just in case I hate it (like Fleabag) but it didn't let me down.
      I bet you were thrilled with the rugby result! I've been sort of following the cricket, it's exciting that England are doing so well, but it's more about being jealous of them being in Chennai! xxx

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    2. Unlike you, I loved Fleabag too!!!!

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  21. Oh Vix, you in 1983!! Absolutely gorgeous!! Such beautiful pictures throughout this blog entry. One thing about the cats... I don't know if you have any sort of animal rescue groups in your area but why don't you ask your vet if s/he knows about any. Usually they're "underground" as if they weren't, they'd be rescuing 24 hrs. a day/ 10,000 days a week!!! But usually somebody-knows-somebody-knows-somebody who rescues cats. It would help if you'd buy yourselves a humane trap and take the captured cat to the rescuer's home, along with a donation to help with the treatment. But talk to your vet about it and then make some phone calls. That's how I hooked up with my rescue group and they've been priceless in helping me with the stray cats that venture around here from time-to-time. Good luck. If I lived near you, I'd help you out. ~Andrea xoxo

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    1. Thanks, Andrea! Brilliant advice with the cats and if only you did live near. We do have a couple of local cat rescues I follow on Facebook who lend out traps and offer lots of good advice. Frank was a stray we rehomed. There's a lot of workshops and factories nearby where I think they normally get fed but with so much being lockdown they're venturing further afield. We shall continue to leave food out and would be more than happy to home them if necessary. xxx

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  22. Isn't it amazing what you can spot if you look up when wandering around a familiar area? Of course you may knock a tooth out walking into a lamppost as well, but that's another story... I used to take quite a few 'look up' walks around London with friends and I must learn to do it again in my new home. Your trips around your home town have inspired me. Boy George, who knew?
    It's A Sin bought back so many memories to me too of going to gay clubs and pubs, AIDS benefits and even gay bingo sessions, of wanting to stand up at funerals and say 'that wasn't him at all, you're whitewashing his life', of bullying friends to go and get tested. I thought it was wonderfully balanced, heart-rending but also uplifting. As the lead character tries to make his mother understand at the end, despite the deaths, despite the awfulness we had such complete and utter fun.
    Have you been watching The Great Pottery Throwdown? I haven't really liked previous series but in lockdown they've ditched the celeb presenters and wound up with just a bunch of lovely, genuine and enthusiastic people talking about arts and crafts; I think you might enjoy it. I am listing your Scandi Noir recommendations for when I've finished Spooks (finally!)

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    1. Hello Fifitr! We miss so much when we don't look up. Often when I'm taking photos people will stop, look at what I'm focussing on and tell me that they never realised that building was there. With 55 pages of heritage buildings listed on the council website lockdown should just fly by.
      It's A Sin really was brilliant TV. That conversation between Ritchie and his mother was incredibly moving, wasn't it?
      Funnily enough I accidently switched over to the Pottery Throwdown when I was waiting for Jon to finish his music and watch something else and caught that bit about Raku. I really enjoyed the bit I saw and thought the presenters (and contestants) were lovely. I might spend a lazy snow afternoon catching up this week. xxx

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  23. Thanks for letting us see your town. A lot of times it seems we get distracted by the big fancy places and forget about the regular ones which are just as interesting.

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    1. There's so much to see if we just look up! x

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  24. Oh I am loving It's a Sin, I'm halfway through at the moment and its bringing back lots of happy memories for me with the sound track and the friends having fun together vibe ... although my mis-spent youth was almost a decade earlier and by 1981 I was married with a new baby.

    There are some lovely old buildings in Walsall, I doubt I'd ever get to see them if it wasn't for your walking tours, so thank you.

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    1. It's such a joyful watch and absolutely brilliant that it's caused HIV test requests to reach an all time high.
      I'm looking forward to joining you and Suky on your walks again. xxx

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  25. Its a Sin sounds like something me and Hubby would like. I'm a couple of years younger than you so the eighties were the years of my youth too - hanging about in pubs and clubs.

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    1. It's a wonderful watch, perfect for your date night! xxx

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  26. Hello Vix, I've been reading your lockdown diaries since you started and just wanted to say thank you for such interesting posts, I find I'm looking forward to the next one! Keep going, and keep well. xx

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    1. Thanks you so much! I really appreciate your kind words! xxx

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  27. Ahh you're taking us all back evening there Vix! The 80s were big hair and even bigger nights out. I remember ending up in gay clubs which were much more fun. ahh stories whizzing around my head now. Well you looked great then and you do now although completely different. The history we are learning about your area is amazing. Wow that beautiful maxi for £3 what a find!! Miss the chazzas wonder what it will be like when things open up again? Happy Sat night Vix Shazxx

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    1. Hello Shaz! Those were the days when you could dance the night away and not get bothered by predatory men! I'm not sure if I'll know how to shop when the chazzas reopen, but I'll have a lot of fun trying! xxx

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  28. Never a crowd known for their sartorial efforts, the local adult male population has sunk to a new low. If not actually wearing a uniform, the town fathers are uniformly attired in thick-soled athletic shoes, baggy jeans, sweat-top with faded sports logo, and worn zip-up jacket. Not only have they been saving money on trips to the barber, but also razor blades...

    Would that they could be inspired by Jon's neat beard and crisp but casual man-about-the-shops appearance. C'mon, men! How difficult could it be to put on grown-up soft boots, clean jeans, a jumper sans advertising and a coordinating cord jacket? (A leather jacket would also work with leather boots.)

    And on the subject of boots, Vix, your Clark's clogs, Mjus, snakeskin, cranberry go-go's, yellow Wellies, and silver wear-with-all's are amazingly attractive and versatile! I see some "professional woman" on screen, freezing in a short winter dress and coat, teetering on heels -- and I think of you, sleek and snug in long layers and boots (with socks!). I do like your fedoras with the long loose hair, 'tho I wear cloches over my French bob.

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    1. There's no excuuse for this general slovenliness, a bit of effort makes all the difference and like you say, it's not hard, is it?
      Being a festival/backpacking girl all my clothes have to work with clumpy boots or they're no good to me! xxx

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  29. Hello Vix, I'm absolutely loving that picture of you in '83. That's exactly how I wanted my hair, after seeing Daryl Hannah is Splash!!! "Mermaid hair" as I used to call it. Jon looks pretty dapper in that jumper too. You have some really handsome buildings in Walsall. For the first time ever Culture Club's 'Karma Chameleon' makes perfect sense! Lulu xXx

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    1. Lulu! I was obsessed with Dattyly Hannah's hair, I had a photo of her I'll pulled out of Dad's Observer sunday magazine when I was a teenager and used to gawp at it in awe. xxx

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  30. I used to climb out of my bedroom window and go raving and pill popping in the 1960s - I was a very rebellious teenage. How on earth you managed to keep the existence of another person in your bedroom for so long is a mystery to me...

    I loved your dress and jacket and Jon looks like a male model - the jumper is so cool!

    I'm really enjoying your guided tour around Walsall. I had no idea there was a art school there and that Flann O'Brien's is a lovely looking pub. I also remember the Cannock Chase murders from the 1960s and am reminded of it when I'm driving up the M6 (to catch the ferry to Dublin) and see the sign for it. Cardmore Chameleon - how very witty!

    Good luck with the litter picking; I wonder how many masks you'll find?

    Stay safe and warm
    xxx

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    1. Although I didn't know it at the time my teenage home life was far from normal, Vronni. Maybe one day I'll write about it!
      I rememebr you telling me about hitch-hiking when you were younger and getting a lift from Camel on their way to a gig, you cool chick. xxx

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  31. Loved reading about your misspent youth, Vix!

    Have fun with your new littering job! Such a good thing to do for the environment. X

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  32. Oh this brought back memories of my college days in Montana. We had a young man that lived with us (my sister and I) after coming out. We had a bed that pulled out of the wall in our front room. My bishop found out there was a man living with us and was so upset, but I told him not to worry as he was gay. That did not calm him down. Boy have things changed and for the better. That young man succumbed to aids about 8 years later so sad.

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    1. What a lovely thing you and your sister did! Your response to your bishop was priceless. How sad that the young man succombed to Aids before a cure could be found. What a terrifying time the 1980s was for young gay men. xxx

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  33. So funny you bring up your youth , I can remember my dad looking for me as I was getting picked on by a lecturer . Only to find me in the boozer next door!! he wasn’t impressed!! hence he made me change colleges and the hospital didn’t argue. I think he got the boot in the end.
    I have lots of gay friends In japan but sadly they have to hide it as it still isn’t acceptable here as isn’t mental health hence I have to go to a US military base to get treatment for my BDP which pisses me off . I have had it for 32 years . Shame but what can you do. And yes I wear my pride Hoddie I don’t care what people think!
    All lives matter now, and that’s all that counts. Mum and dad got their jab on Friday so I breathed a sigh of relief. Take care and keep safe

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    1. I'm shocked that being gay isn't accepted in Japan. That has really surprised me. India's got quite a big gay scene these days with Pride marches and lots of clubs, bars and theme nights in the cities although it was only made legal a few years ago. Let's hope Japan wakes up soon.
      Brilliant news about your mum & dad's jab! I bet they both feel really hopeful now. xxx

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  34. This has been another fascinating trip around Walsall with you. I'm loving the architecture.
    We've also been watching 'It's a sin'.It really is like a trip back in time isn't it. The music too, it just transports you back in an instant.
    The stories of your teenage days definitely resonated with me!!
    Its freezing here today, hope you're keeping warm over in Walsall. xxx

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    1. Thanks, Sally!
      Wasn't it a wonderful series? Normally when the 1980s is represented on TV it's not the era I can identify with, all mainstream clubs and yuppies, but this was perfect.
      It's blooming freezing here! Stay warm. xxx

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  35. I love both of your outfits for your walk around the block, and isn't it lovely to be able to chat to people even if at the required distance? Oh no for dropping that load of sportswear in a puddle. Can I admit that this made me chuckle :-) I can so see me doing a thing like that!
    I haven't yet seen It's a Sin, but I've heard only good things about it, so I definitely need to check it out. I too spent a lot of time in gay clubs back then. The punk and gay scene definitely merged at some point. And well into the 80s we frequented a sorely missed pub which was owned by a gay couple and where we all congregated before a night out. Heady and at the same time poignantly bittersweet times!
    Thank you for another Walsall heritage walk. Loved the Caldmore/Karma Chameleon quip! I do wish I had some interesting facts to tell about my hometown, and I doubt it would make fascinating reading matter.
    How absolutely amazing that quilted Anokhi jacket looks belted over your dress! xxx

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    1. Thanks, Ann! Yes, it is lovely to chat when we're on our walks, I think we're all slightly starved of human contact.
      It's A Sin was utterly brilliant, I'm sure it won't be long before it reaches you, it's already broken all records for viewing figures here. There were a few punks at the Nightingale, you're right about the crossover. xxx

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  36. I've been enjoying a lovely catch up of your recent posts. Gosh! you have some wonderful old buildings around your way and it's always fascinating to read of the history behind them.
    I'm hoping I can watch 'It's A Sin' on catch up. X

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    1. Hi Jules! I was amazed when I discovered the council list of buildings of historical interest in the borough, there are 55 pages - should keep me occupied all year!
      We watched It's A Sin on catch-up, you will love it, I'm sure! xxx

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  37. I'm watching It's A Sin in real time weekly, it gives me something to look forward too each week. It's sooo good I've laughed and cried. Being into heavy metal, well that scene was about as repressive and judgmental as it's possible to get. When I look back now at some of the behaviour and prejudice I can't quite believe what I used to put up with/ignore makes me shudder.

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    1. I wish I'd been more patience and watched it on a weekly basis, too! It was heartbreaking and uplifting in equal measure.
      Oh yes, the heavy metal scene. I used to hang out at a bikers pub back in the day but loathed the bigotted attitudes of the older clientele.
      There was an exception to the rule though, Judas priest frontman & Walsall boy Rob Halford, gay and proud! xxx

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  38. What a fabulous post, lots of brick architecture, some delightful details and stories about old buildings and anecdotes of your 'mispent youth'. I had not a so interesting youth, but I had a buggery spiral perm (all we have one!). But I quickly went into a wilder side including wearing spiky hair and listening to Basque Radical Rock (which I still do). Actually, I have to watch these series, as one of my friends has strongly recommended it to me!
    I love your dress with both jackets (you rock these quilted jackets!) and admire the way you style them!. Love your comfy&cool boots and fabulous jewellery!
    And glad to see Jon rocking his pullover and cool jacket!
    besos

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    1. Basque Radical Rock sounds just the kind of thing Jon & I would enjoy, thank you for the link, I shall investigate further! xxx

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  39. Thanks for the Walsall tour - that's so cool that Boy George lived there. I used to go to the gay bars to go dancing when I was in my 20's - so much more fun that the straight bars, and always cute boys to dance with. Jon looks very dashing in that photo - I like the beard!

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    1. Yes! Gay clubs were much more fun, no predatory men hovering around the loos was one huge attraction! xxx

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  40. Fun to hear about your naughty clubbing days! I've added so many men to my Disco Spotify playlist...

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    1. It's a brilliant song to get you moving! Fascinating pop fact, Miquel Brown is Sinitta's mum! xxx

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  41. Your misspent youth sounds amazing! How on earth did you manage to keep your mate in your room without being detected?!
    xx

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